09/18/2026
Our friend Jean Tabaka taught us something we’ve used in every retrospective since. Start with appreciations.
Before you touch a single problem, everyone names something they’re grateful for from the sprint. A teammate who caught a bug before it shipped. Someone who stayed late to help a teammate.
It does two things at once. It builds a celebration into every sprint, and it opens people up before you ask them anything hard.
The other move is even simpler. Get the team out of the conference room. The weather is beautiful right now across most of the country. Stand under a tree. Sit in a park. Walk down to the local pub and have a beer together.
People talk differently when they feel like friends instead of coworkers going through the motions. You’ll hear things under a tree that you would never hear across a conference table.
So here’s one move for this week. Open your next retrospective with appreciations. Just that. Watch how much the room opens up before you’ve even reached the hard part.