03/06/2021
5 Reasons TO DO your BO***IR SESSION. (NOT WRITTEN BY ME) UNKNOWN ARTHOR
1. You will look back at these photos, no matter what size or shape or color you are, and say “DAMN. I was a badass.” It takes guts to strip down to your skivvies in front of a photographer (and possibly a photographer’s assistant) and then bend and pose and let the “I am hot and the subject of this whole shebang” take hold of you, even if it’s just for a second.
2. You will feel absolutely stunning. And there should be absolutely NO SHAME in your game. The fact we have practically criminalized feeling self-worth is awful. We should tell ourselves daily we are beautiful and worthy and wondrous creatures. Because every single one of us on this planet…we are all beautiful and worthy and wondrous creatures.
3. You will feel powerful. I left my session feeling like I could conquer just about anything – and 4 months later, I am still feeling awfully amazing. Not like a totally egotistical power, but a “well, I did THAT, so I can’t be scared of doing THIS.”
No matter what size you are, you are you. And you should absolutely have photographs of yourself. You should look at yourself with love and confidence that you are the only you that there ever will be and you are awesome.
4. If you’re not there, it’s ok. It took me 4 months to get the balls to post these photos on the internet for the whole world to see!
5. You do not have to show a single soul any of these photos. It is absolutely not required that you show anybody any of these pictures. Period. You could do it just for the way it makes you feel and never download them or print them or anything. On the flip side, you could put them in a book for yourself. Or your partner/boyfriend/girlfriend/neighbor (but don’t give them to your neighbor. Unless they’re also your boyfriend or you have a really close relationship).
This whole bo***ir experience is about you, and nobody else. It’s about what you want out of it, and what you want to do with the end results.
Don’t let anybody tell you different, and quit talking yourself out of it