03/29/2026
choosing you is allowed
you can be a girls’ girl and still choose yourself
both can exist
because how many times have you told someone else…
do what’s best for you
take the chance
go all in
but when it comes to you… you pause
you overthink
you put everyone else first
you convince yourself it’s “selfish”
I’ve been there too
and I think what shifted for me was realizing this:
if I’m pouring into everyone else but not into myself…
eventually there’s nothing left to give
& that’s not the kind of girls’ girl I want to be
I want to show up fully for my girls & for me
so if you’ve been feeling that pull to choose yourself lately
this is your sign you’re not wrong for it
you’re just being your biggest hype girl!