05/08/2026
There's a TV show called "The Boys" based on a comic series of the same name. It's... vulgar. And that's putting it lightly. But it uses the vulgarity to punch home points to the extreme. In the midst of the violence and... again, vulgarity... there are real gems about the accumulation of power, what it costs to fight for a cause, and the razor sharp edge of new media.
Much of it is highlighted by the mighty amoral antagonist, Homelander.
Think Superman but shattered psychologically and deeply self-obsessed. (By the way, there's a great comic built on the premise of "what if Superman landed as a baby in Russia instead of the United States" called Red Son. Worth checking out.) He's an absolute maniac who gleefully stomps, lasers, and otherwise obliterates whoever stands in his way. All with a broken smile on his face.
At one point, Homelander is talking to the world's smartest person, Sister Sage.
He says, "Popularity is power."
Sister Sage responds, "It's a prison."
Neither one is wrong.
Lots of popularity can create a lot of power. However, I personally know a lot of law firm owners who have a high level of "popularity," especially on social media, but they are trapped by the need to constantly keep up with being popular. The hamster wheel never stops. And for many, if they feel it waning, it causes panic. What will they do without the popularity and its associated power?
Couple of things...
First off, many mistake broad popularity for power.
That's just one path.
There is a lot of power in being extremely important, relevant, and of interest to a key group of people. I know a lot of law firm owners who quietly make big bucks while actively avoiding any more spotlight than is useful for them. They would rather focus on key relationships and are fine with others getting attention.
Second, when you release yourself from the burden of popularity, you can focus far more on what has actual impact.
Instead of obsessing over "reach," you can obsess over "acquired clients." And sometimes reach helps you get there. But sometimes it gets in the way. You don't have to build a hamster wheel-like prison, forcing you to constantly churn out hot takes on social media or pandering to the masses.
Be the right person to the right people, and you'll find what you want and need.