09/08/2026
Consistent fundraiser behaviors: Facilitate with deep knowledge, keep trust at the fore, and stay curious.
While these are practiced over a lifetime, we encourage you to focus on ONE of the below attributes this fall. Here's how to focus your efforts:
Rate yourself 1 to 5 on each, honestly, not aspirationally.
- You facilitate, don't sell. You listen more than you talk. The donor leads. You structure.
- You know three things about every donor. Giving range. Values. Timing.
- You have a real system for donors who aren't ready yet.
- You use questions, not pitches. Your meetings run on curiosity.
- You manage volunteers like donors. Trust, specificity, follow-up, every time.
- You are always prepared for the gift conversation should a donor bring it up. Objectives and a real number, set before you walk in.
Where did you scored lowest? That's where you focus over the next three months.
And remember that you don't have to do this alone. Registration for our Major Gifts Officer Bootcamp, a 12-week live training program, closes this Friday. The Fall 2026 cohort starts September 16.
Learn more and register: https://gailperrygroup.com/major-gift-officer-training/