12/09/2024
Wanna know what kindness and compassion looks like when you come to a Sensory-Friendly Performance at Children's Theatre of Charlotte? It’s not about what I do in that space, it’s all about the village. Yesterday was the annual performance of The Best Christmas Pageant Ever: The Musical, and one of our beautiful humans was having a hard time. They were feeling escalated for a little bit, but they were able to work through it and get to the other side relatively quickly in the grand scheme of things. Overheard somewhere else in the house:
Kiddo: Why are they (fill in observable tough moment)
Caregiver: Well, they’re having a hard time. Know how you feel when (fill in struggle context)?
Kiddo: Yeah
Caregiver: It’s like that for them.
Kiddo: Oooh
Enter kindness and compassion, enter amazing teaching opportunity to help each other relate to someone else’s experience, enter the best version of humanity, and no one had to leave the theatre. No one was asked to leave, and no one asked to make them leave. There were some glances, but those glances weren’t judgy side eye. Those glances were concern, they were brief, and we all moved on safely. What a wonderful concept.
Kindness costs nothing, and it was more than palpable in that room yesterday. It is so extremely rare that this happens, or anything for that matter, and in all 9 years of working alongside this beautiful organization, I’ve never had to ask anyone to leave. This village takes such good care of each other and is so very quick to offer grace and understanding. People deserve to be exactly who they need to be, and so often, working through a struggle moment means they can figure out what they need next time around without having to struggle so much. That’s why I’m so in love with everything I get to do there.