03/27/2026
People ask me all the time
“How do I figure out what I want to do next?”
And the truth is
you don’t start with the job
You start with your life
How do you want your mornings to feel
Do you want to take your kids to school
Have slow starts
Build something of your own
Be more present with your family
Most people skip this part
They jump straight into job titles and applications
But if you don’t get clear on your life
you’ll keep choosing roles that don’t fit it
At some point
you have to sit with yourself
and actually think
If you’re in that place right now
start there before you start applying