10/13/2026
Part 5 of the Hartman-Parton Paradigm: Know Who You Are Beneath the Surface
The hair. The rhinestones. The clothes. The personality.
Dolly Parton created one of the most recognizable public images in entertainment. But image and identity are not the same thing. And that distinction takes me straight back to Hartman.
Who are you when we take away the job title? We know how to describe our responsibilities. Hartman’s emphasis on Self-awareness asks us to look more deeply at the unique person beneath those roles.
One danger he explored was becoming what we call outwardly led.
That happens when roles, expectations, rewards, pressure or approval begin to have too much influence over how we define and value ourselves.
Dolly has spoken about knowing her own nature, understanding her strengths and weaknesses, and protecting her identity rather than giving it away to someone else.
It brings us to a very practical question:
Am I defining myself, or am I allowing the world around me to do it for me?
Our roles matter. So do our responsibilities to other people. The challenge is recognizing when those things have become the primary measure of our worth.
Before we decide what to do with our lives, we first have to understand who is doing the living.
Which parts of how you describe yourself reflect what matters to you, and which reflect what others expect of you?
Next: Hartman’s progression from knowing yourself to choosing, creating and giving of yourself.
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Read the full story on AXIOLOGY by JI: https://axiologybyji.com/2026/09/19/hartman-parton-paradigm-axiology-human-value/