09/09/2026
I TOOK ONE EXTRA DAY OFF. APPARENTLY, THE COMPANY COLLAPSED!
Success nugget... Ladies, I need somebody to explain something to me. Labor Day was already a holiday. Monday was FREE. All I did was look at Friday and think, “You know what? I believe I will take you too.”
That is it.
One little extra day.
I turned a three-day weekend into a beautiful four-day weekend, and I regret NOTHING. I rested. I relaxed. I disconnected. I enjoyed myself.
By Tuesday morning, I walked back into the office refreshed, recharged, Chocolate Caramel Latte in hand, purse on my shoulder, and ready to get back to business.
I opened the door.
Apparently, civilization had collapsed. People were waiting. Folders were waiting. Messages were waiting. My computer was sitting there looking suspicious.
Then I opened my email.
147 NEW EMAILS.
Excuse me? I was gone ONE EXTRA DAY!
Before I could put my purse down:
“Did you see my email?”
No.
I was OFF.
“Can you hop on a quick call?”
I just got here.
“We need you ASAP.”
Apparently, you needed me Friday too, but I was somewhere minding my business.
Then came my personal favorite:
“I just have a few questions.”
Ladies, we all know there is no such thing as “just a few questions.” That is how they get you.
One question becomes five questions. Five questions become a meeting. The meeting produces another meeting. Then somebody says, “While we have you here...”
NO!
But somewhere underneath all the humor is something I want women to remember.
You are allowed to rest. You are allowed to take the day off. You are allowed to disconnect without feeling guilty. You do not have to work yourself into exhaustion to prove that you are committed, capable, or valuable.
Rest does not diminish your leadership. Sometimes rest is exactly what allows you to return with the energy, clarity, and perspective you need to lead well.
And if everything falls apart because you took ONE extra day off?
Ladies, you do not need less vacation.
They need a better system!
Now, if you will excuse me, I have 147 emails to deal with.
But first...
I am going to finish my Chocolate Caramel Latte.
Some boundaries survived the four-day weekend!