Soul Search

02/09/2026

Chicago men… this one’s for you! 😉

Our women’s tickets are sold out. 💃 Yes, really. We now have women joining a waitlist while we open space for more men to step in.

If you’ve ever wished dating felt easier, more natural, and way more fun than apps...this is it.

One room. Incredible women. Thoughtful icebreakers. Real conversations. All you have to do is show up.

Don’t overthink it. Just come meet your Valentine (and, enjoy a great night with great people).

Single professional men & women: come solo – leave connected. Hosted by Chicago Matchmaker Sonia Neameyer (Soul Search).

01/25/2026

Powerful❤️ If you have ANY relationship you really care about that's in a rough patch right now, I invite you to listen to this 2-minute video clip. Love & Hugs, Soul Search
https://www.facebook.com/reel/1353114312930115

01/04/2026

Hi Everyone! Happy 2026! Just wanted to give you a little inspiration... Today is the busiest day of the year for the online dating apps. And, January is the busiest month. If you've taken a break yet you're ready to date, now is the time to get back out there. If you've been on the apps and you're not getting the results you want, change things up and switch to a different app. Or, if you'd like to partner with someone who will help you be most successful online, reach out to me via the Soul Search website: https://soulsearchvip.com/

Wishing you love,
Sonia Neameyer
Founder/CEO of Soul Search
Certified Matchmaker & Dating Coach

12/02/2024

Hi All! Don't forget to light up your vehicle. 😂

On Lakeshore Drive in Chicago on Sunday evening (12/1), there were about 10 cars in a row that were lit up like a Xmas tree:) Happy Holidays!

10/30/2024

Hi, Sonia here:) Happy Hump Day! What's your favorite quote (& why)?

I have a few favorites. This is my #1.

In my own experience, coming from a family where I've cared MUCH more about their well-being than they do, it often feels like a very heavy weight to carry. When you take good care of yourself, so everyone around you who loves & cares about you is able to worry less, work less on your behalf, and feel happier because you're happy & healthy, it truly is the BEST gift ever. ❤️

10/09/2024

Hi! Piggybacking off my previous post yesterday about date night… What's a fun spot you'd recommend going to in your local area?

I'd suggest Flight Club on Wacker Drive in Chicago - it has social darts, good cocktails, and a fun vibe. 😉

10/08/2024

Heyyy Everyone! What's planned for your next date night (& when)?😍

If you're currently single, we'd love to introduce you to your next date:) Reach out at soulsearchvip.com.

If you're in a relationship, or single & going on your next first date, we'd love to hear about your fun plans!

For me, it'll be dinner, a cocktail, and great conversation at a cool spot in the West Loop this Saturday.😉

10/07/2024

Hi, Sonia here:) Hope your Monday is off to a fantastic start! Here's my question for you today… Is there a healthy habit you've been wanting to start, that you keep putting off?

If no, you're a rockstar! What's your secret? 😜 If yes, what might be the structure sufficient against your resistance (to start AND stick with it)?

For me, one healthy habit (I stopped during the pandemic and had trouble starting back up again) is weightlifting. After kicking the can down the road for several weeks (& months), I realized me relying on myself isn't working right now, so I hired a personal trainer. Weight training is now consistently back in my routine every week. I'm still rebuilding my strength, as you can see here with the pads for my lunges:) First time for me...exercising with chains, lol. Thanks, Coach Ryan!

10/05/2024

Happy Saturday! Our permanent website will be going live soon, in November. Stay tuned…😃 Have an amazing weekend.☀️

10/04/2024

Hi! Are you single, divorced, or widowed AND ready to meet your person? Or, do you know someone amazing who is?

We'd love for you to join our confidential network for FREE, if you're interested in quality introductions with those who have the qualities and shared values you're looking for.

Send us a LinkedIn message here or reach out to us on our website at soulsearchvip.com. Can't wait to hear from you! Happy Friday! 😄

10/03/2024

Hi, Happy Friday Jr! It's Sonia here:) Are you curious about the results of the 9/20/24 poll? Thanks to everyone who participated.

How might the way you make soup be similar to how you do relationships??

As coaches, we often say, "how you do one thing is how you do everything". It's neither right nor wrong; it's just another way to look at how we show up.

Here is the poll question, along with the combined poll results from various social media platforms:
If you were making soup and you added too much salt, what would you do?
A) Start over - 18%
B) Eat it as-is - 0%
C) Throw it & eat something else - 18%
D) Balance with other ingredients - 64%

I'd initially try to "balance with other ingredients". And, this is how I've shown up in relationships I'm invested in too. When things aren't going smoothly, I will think of different ways to try to make it work. In the past, I used to try too hard and stay too long. Now, if the "ingredients" are there, I will do my very best to make things work; and, if the ingredients aren't there, I will "throw it & eat something else" (i.e., I will part ways when we don't have what's needed to mutually fit). What about you? 😉

10/03/2024

Hiya! Sonia here:) Do you have a strength you often overdo?

One of the big ones for me is when excellence goes overboard and turns into perfectionism, even here with social media, eeek!

I've said many times when I used to lead PI trainings...
"any strength overdone becomes a weakness".

Sooo, starting today, in my effort to kick perfectionism to the curb, I'm starting the Garbage Post Challenge… Who's comin' with me??

Check out this podcast, hope it's helpful for you too. I'll let you know how it turns out for me, in 30 days!!

P.S. I told myself I'd start yesterday, but I found PLENTY of other things to do instead, LOL. Ok, I'm starting right now, for real:)

I'm letting you in on a super-secret tool that I teach exclusively inside my Joyful Marketing community this week! It’s called the Garbage Post Challenge. Takin