Seen & Known

Seen & Known We exist to help single adults build HEALTHY relationships through in-person events.

Do you FEEL loved?Do you know the difference between being the recipient of someone’s love and being the cause of their ...
02/18/2024

Do you FEEL loved?

Do you know the difference between being the recipient of someone’s love and being the cause of their love?

This is an exceedingly important distinction if you want to FEEL LOVED.

The mistake most people make is believing (often subconsciously) that they are the cause or reason that they are (or should be) loved by another.

This is simply NOT TRUE.

If I (or anyone else) walked up to you on the street, looked you in the eyes, and told you, ”I will make you love me.” How would you respond?

Probably with something like, “Who the #@$$% do you think you are?

Why?

Because we intrinsically know that our love is ours to give, or not, based on our choice/desire.

Even in the most head-over-heels, love-at-first-sight, type scenario, we know that the love comes from our heart and isn’t based on the recipient of our love ”earning it.”

Now imagine the arrogance of believing that we ourselves are the reason that someone loves us. Our goodness, our beauty, our strength, etc. are the reason that we are loved.

Read that ⬆️ again.

Did it sink in?

You are not the reason that someone loves you.

You are the recipient of that person’s love.

You are the recipient of that person CHOOSING to love you.

You are chosen. You are wanted.

NOT because of you; because of that person’s CHOICE to love you.

There could be a myriad of reasons, or maybe just one, why they chose to love you but the fact remains, it was their choice.

Back to my original question, “Do you FEEL loved?”

Only when you understand in your soul that you are the unearning recipient of love, is your heart opened through thankfulness and you can experience and FEEL loved.

The pride involved in believing that you are the cause of the love being shown to you, quickly hardens your heart and cuts off your ability to feel the love and affection that others have for you.

Having this information is good, but, to feel loved you must truly change your beliefs and break the pride, to do that you need to repent.

If you know that works, get started.

If not, I will post a link in the comments that will take you to a teaching on what repentance is and how to go about it.

For more in-depth teaching on this, DM me your email and I will add you to our Thursday discussion group.

02/01/2024

For those of you interested in the Discussion group, we are having it in-person and online. The in-person group starts at 6:30 and the online gets going around 7pm MST.

If you are interested in the in-person group just DM me with your email for details.

I will post the link for the online group on here closer to the start time.

I will be sharing the link to the discussion group on Dreams, Deliverance, and Spiritual Government here shortly. Be on ...
01/25/2024

I will be sharing the link to the discussion group on Dreams, Deliverance, and Spiritual Government here shortly. Be on the lookout for it.

We should be live around 6:45, if everything works correctly...

Most people confuse their desire to be accepted as ANYTHING but THAT!To avoid the vulnerable sense of wanting and needin...
03/01/2023

Most people confuse their desire to be accepted as ANYTHING but THAT!

To avoid the vulnerable sense of wanting and needing to be accepted people hide it under the guise of pursing position, wealth, s*x, hobbies, etc. All in an attempt to create a persona that people will accept, without needing to personally acknowledge that acceptance is at the core of their pursuits.

This leads to major, long-term, bo***ge as these persona‘s become their identity and they can no longer see who they were created to be.

The first step is to tell yourself the truth…

You want AND need to be accepted.

The second step is to realize that the only acceptance that will satisfy that desire, is acceptance based on the you that God created you to be...which means all the layers you have built, all the persona’s, have to be destroyed. You have to become like a little child.

We come alongside Christian singles to help them find and develop HEALTHY relationships by providing mix and mingle even...
02/10/2023

We come alongside Christian singles to help them find and
develop HEALTHY relationships by providing mix and mingle
events for up to 100 people (we keep the ratio at 50/50).

We are a place for single adults ages 25-45 (broken into two
groups 25-37, 30-45) to gather with the intention of meeting and
developing healthy relationships with the opposite s*x.

The emphisas is on H.E.A.L.T.H.Y.
Humble
Emotionally stable
Authentic
Loving
Trustworthy
Honoring
Yippee!

We believe that there are two primary areas that hinder
singles from having their desired relationship:

1. Spiritually - Lack of understanding how to deal with personal triggers and toxic habits.
We believe that the struggles must people face in
relationships come from belief related issues (not just faith, but
beliefs like…everyone rejects me, etc.) that cause people to have
destructive relational patterns.

2. Practically - Limited opportunities to connect in a healthy environment.
We believe that there are GREAT men and
women everywhere, they just need a space to meet each other
and someone to get the conversation started.

We solve these problems.

Our events are a brilliant mix… we combine the excellence to
provide a well organized event, the intentionality to build a culture
of growth and the spontaneity to make the atmosphere
relaxed and fun.

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Colorado Springs, CO

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