10/09/2026
Today, I'm thankful for full circle moments and core memories being unlocked.
I loved playing sports as a kid, but I wasn't a natural athlete. Youth baseball and soccer introduced me to team sports, but I wasn't particularly gifted at either. It wasn't until a summer rec league swim meet in 3rd grade that I found any success at all in sport, and that was following my first race—a 25 free—where I got to the other end of the pool before everybody else and they gave me a blue "Heat Winner" ribbon. From that moment on, I'd found my sport, I was a swimmer.
Fast forward seven years and I traveled from Southern Indiana up to Columbus North for my first high school sectional meet and experienced my first big-time natatorium with a packed crowd of spectators. Little did I know at the time that I'd marry a North graduate and eventually put roots down in this city.
Fast forward again to last night, my son is participating in his first swim meet at that exact same natatorium in what's now his hometown of Columbus. First race: 25 free. He earned the opportunity to experience that same joy of winning I discovered more than twenty years earlier by getting to the other end of the pool before any of his competitors.
Where he goes from here is up to him. I won't force him to love the sport that was mine for so many years, but I'm excited to see him excel in swimming at an age years younger than I ever competed and have the opportunity to share insights and lessons from my years in the pool. Beyond that, I'll support whatever passion for competitive sports or other extracurriculars he finds and will always cherish where it overlaps with my own formational years. I'm a coach at heart, after all, so I think this is a natural tendency to want to be able to guide your child from a place of experience and expertise. His knack for baseball at an early age is something I don't share with him at all, but it's been just as joyous to watch in these earliest seasons.
Getting to experience the world all over again through my son's eyes is the greatest gift, especially when his victory allowed me to experience a full circle moment that filled me with immense gratitude and pride.
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