08/28/2026
My clients ask how anyone actually gets through recovery. The process. The whole thing. I do not have a quick answer for that. One fits cleanly into a caption.
What I have instead is a small one. And a reminder from my dog.
Ruby has never once paused to consider whether the vacuum is worth panicking over before reacting to it anyway.
She does not strategize or plan three steps ahead. She just gets through the next moments in front of her. and then the minutes after that, one stretch at a time, without much apparent concern for how the whole day will add up.
Some days, that is the only approach that has ever worked for me too, in this work and outside of it. Not a plan. Just the next stretch.
Tell me what is sitting on your list this weekend, the thing you keep circling without landing on. I am not going to promise you it will be easy. I will tell you, with some confidence, that it is doable. I believe in you. ❤️