It's Destiny

It's Destiny Concordia Kansas & Northcentral KS Motherhood Photographer + Birth Worker
Placenta Encapsulation, Birth Doula, Childbirth Education

North Central Kansas Photographer with Bachelors of Fine Arts in Photography

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09/04/2026

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Sept 2 is pretty much Oct 2 ;)
09/02/2026

Sept 2 is pretty much Oct 2 ;)

08/25/2026
THE AWAKENING > > > > > > > > >>>> > >>>>> >>>>> The big piece of inspiration for this shoot wasn't just witches. It was...
08/23/2026

THE AWAKENING > > > > > > > > >>>> > >>>>> >>>>>

The big piece of inspiration for this shoot wasn't just witches.

It was a search.

In this world sometimes we feel alone. Unheard. Misunderstood. Lost.

We spend time searching for where do we fit in, where are my people, and what makes me happy.....

Through that journey you find people that "light your light", spark your soul, you feel this deep connection, a sense of belonging...

And once you do find these people, these things.... you can AWAKENING pieces of yourself that might otherwise be lost.

Never stop searching for where you belong.

đŸ„°đŸ„°đŸ„°I’m so excited to be featured in the birth edition!
08/22/2026

đŸ„°đŸ„°đŸ„°I’m so excited to be featured in the birth edition!

✹Magazine Feature✹ Birth | World Photography Day | August 2026 ✹

Featured Photograp[her] đŸ“·: It's Destiny

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08/22/2026

Have you been labeled in birth with failure to progress? Yes? Read on until the end!

I just got done listening to Evidence Based Birth Podcast episode 224, and it was all about “failure to progress.” Link here is you want to listen- https://evidencebasedbirth.com/friedmans-curve-and-failure-to-progress-a-leading-cause-of-unplanned-c-sections/

Failure to progress is the number one reason for a C-section in the U.S. About 1 in 3 women will be labeled as having failure to progress during labor and end up going back for a C-section.

But what really caught my attention was learning more about Friedman’s Curve. So if you don’t know, this is like a studied run in 1955 that measures how quickly the average cervix should go from 0 cm to 10. Today this study is still used a lot to give providers an idea about how quickly labor is “supposed” to progress came from.

What’s the problem with that?

Friedman’s research was done in 1955 on only about 500 births.

And do you know what else was happening during this study in 1955?

TWILIGHT SLEEP!!!

If you’ve never heard of twilight sleep, women were given drugs that could heavily sedate them, sometimes even to the point of sleeping. This cause them to forget the experience. But!!!! No it didn’t block the sensations of contractions.

Think about how different that is from birth today.

Oxytocin is what helps contractions become stronger and more effective. When you’re experiencing labor, your body is responding to those sensations and releasing hormones for more contractions. With an epidural today, you may feel very little or nothing at all. That is why labor can sometimes slow down after an epidural. With twilight sleep, women could still experience the physical sensations while also being extremely sedated and relaxed. Equally quicker labors vs. today’s epidural births.

Also the population was different. Women giving birth in 1955 were generally younger, and the population was smaller-bodied than today’s population.

Then, around 2010, researchers started taking another look at how labor actually progresses because they wanted to lower the C-section rate.

They found that active labor actually begins closer to 6 cm, while Friedman’s research considered active labor to begin around 4 cm.

That is a HUGE difference when you’re deciding that somebody’s labor has “stalled.”

The newer guidelines recognize that labor before 6 cm can take longer and that this can still be NORMAL. They also allow more flexibility for things like inductions and epidurals.

And this is where I really started thinking


If around 1 in 3 women are being labeled with abnormal labor progression, maybe the problem isn’t that 1 in 3 women’s bodies don’t know how to dilate. The problem is using the 1955 freeman’s curve.

They even found that providers were more likely to follow the newer guidelines when the birth happened on a weekday rather than a weekend. And allowing longer labors according to the newer guidelines did not show additional safety problems in the research.

There was also a 2016 study in Italy with around 400 people divided into two groups. One group followed the older Friedman-style labor management, while the other followed the newer 2017 guidelines.

The Friedman group had more restrictions, including lying down and not eating, while the newer-guideline group could move around, eat, and drink.

The result?

The women in Friedman curve group were 2x as likely to have a C-section and experienced more interventions. The group following the newer guidelines had fewer interventions and a 10% C-section rate.

Then there was research looking specifically at medical inductions and failure to progress. Among those who ended up having a C-section for failure to progress 80% 
80%! did not meet the newer 2017 guidelines before the C-section was performed.

That was incredibly eye-opening to me.

We hear “failure to progress” and automatically think the woman’s body failed to do something it was supposed to do.

But how often was her body actually given enough time?

And the part that AMAZES me the most is realizing that so much of the thinking about how quickly labor “should” progress traces back to research from 1955 not only on just around 500 births, but births happening during the era of TWILIGHT SLEEP.

Yet we’re still having conversations today about women’s bodies “failing” to progress.

Maybe sometimes it isn’t a failure to progress.

Maybe it’s a failure to wait.

They tried to burn us to the ground... They forgot, we made the fire.ekkkkk can't wait to share our Awakening Shoot!!
08/19/2026

They tried to burn us to the ground... They forgot, we made the fire.

ekkkkk can't wait to share our Awakening Shoot!!

Some sneaks from some of my favorite peoples maternity session!! Ekkk can’t wait to meet you baby!! This is the magic th...
08/18/2026

Some sneaks from some of my favorite peoples maternity session!! Ekkk can’t wait to meet you baby!!

This is the magic that can happen when you just go with the kids flow and let them have a good time.

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