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Certain buildings are worth going out of your way to see, not because someone told you they were important, but because ...
06/14/2026

Certain buildings are worth going out of your way to see, not because someone told you they were important, but because being there changes the experience. Museums are especially good at this when they get it right, because the building, the art, the light, the route, and the city around it all start working together. The best museum buildings do more than store culture behind climate-controlled walls and unnecessarily expensive gift shops. They give you a reason to slow down, look harder, and remember the visit as something larger than the objects on display.

Museums have always had a particular hold on architects, partly because they sit in that rare category of building where the architecture is allowed, and often expected, to matter to the public experience. Today, we are going to be looking at 10 Museums that are worth the trip to go see - and we are happy if you want to share other museums that should be added to this starting point.

Special Thanks to episode sponsor Construction Specialties for their ongoing support of the Life of an Architect podcast.

Ep 203: Ten Museums to Visit Before You Die explores museum buildings where architecture shapes the visit as much as the art.

Middle management is not usually the part of a career anyone dreams about, which is probably fair since most dreams do n...
05/18/2026

Middle management is not usually the part of a career anyone dreams about, which is probably fair since most dreams do not involve inheriting more responsibility while time and authority stand nearby pretending they were not invited. Still, there is something important that happens in that space if you are paying attention. You start to see how decisions move through a firm, how unclear expectations become someone else’s burden, and how much leadership depends on remembering what pressure felt like before you had the ability to pass it along. The middle can make you sharper, more patient, and more useful, but only if it does not teach you the wrong lesson along the way. The goal is not to survive it just long enough to recreate the same fog for the next group of people ... the goal is to come out of it with enough memory, humility, and judgment to make the middle a little less mysterious for whoever comes next.

Andrew Hawkins and I spend episode 201: The Middle of Middle Management - talking about the career arc that in part defines middle management and along the way, we discuss what it is, why it is a frustrating time for many, the actual value this experience provides, and the call to take the lessons learned with you once you move out of this responsibility.

Special thanks to episode sponsor Construction Specialties for their ongoing support of the Life of an Architect podcast.

Ep 201: The Middle of Middle Management explores responsibility before authority, and how the middle can sharpen judgment without clouding leadership for firms.

Well ... we made it to 200 episodes, and I need to start by simply saying "Thank you" to all the people who have come al...
05/05/2026

Well ... we made it to 200 episodes, and I need to start by simply saying "Thank you" to all the people who have come along with Andrew and me on this journey. To mark this milestone, we decided to record a special episode that highlights the best episodes we've recorded and why we think they're worth your time if you haven't listened to them already.

Two hundred episodes leaves behind more than a back catalog. It leaves a record of what we cared about, what we got right, what we wrestled with, and what kept changing shape the longer we sat with it. Some topics were easy to discuss, some were harder than expected, and some only became meaningful because the conversation forced a clearer point of view than either of us started with. That has been one of the stranger benefits of this show because making your thoughts public tends to sharpen them in ways private reflection usually does not. Episode 200 seemed like the right time to revisit the episodes that meant the most to us for very different reasons. This podcast has been good for us, important to us, and only occasionally did it feel like a houseguest who failed to realize it was past time to leave.

Special thanks to episode sponsor Construction Specialties for their continued and ongoing support of the Life of an Architect podcast.

Ep 200: Hate to Love You looks back at favorite episodes, hard lessons, great guests, and the conversations that made this podcast worth your time from day one.

Conflict doesn’t usually start with shouting. Conflict typically starts with a room full of professionals trying to keep...
04/19/2026

Conflict doesn’t usually start with shouting. Conflict typically starts with a room full of professionals trying to keep it together while money, timing, blame, and ego begin working themselves up like a raccoon next to a vending machine. Professional practice teaches us pretty quickly that the real trouble starts when an ordinary disagreement stops being about the work and starts becoming something people feel they need to defend, survive, or win.

Conflict is one of those parts of practice that never makes anyone’s list of favorite skills, right up until the moment they realize their career is going to be shaped by it anyway. Technical ability matters, design judgment matters, experience matters, but none of those things excuse a person from knowing how to stay useful when the air gets a little thinner in the room. Most people will eventually discover that being clever, correct, or loudly certain is not the same thing as being effective, and practice has a fairly reliable way of teaching that lesson whether you volunteer for it or not. A lot of professional maturity comes from learning where to put your energy, when to let your ego go hungry, and how to protect the work without turning every disagreement into a personal campaign. That is harder than it sounds, which is probably why so few people are actually good at it.

Today, Andrew Hawkins and I unbox the topic "Conflict Resolution." I hope you get a chance to check it out. This one matters a lot, and our industry could benefit from some improvements.

Special thanks to episode sponsor Construction Specialties for their ongoing support of the Life of an Architect podcast.

Ep 199: Conflict Resolution explores how architects manage tension, stay useful under pressure, and move hard conversations toward better outcomes.

Creativity gets talked about as though it arrives through some spark of inspiration … right up until you have to do it f...
04/05/2026

Creativity gets talked about as though it arrives through some spark of inspiration … right up until you have to do it for a living. At this point, the conversation gets a lot more practical because ideas still have to survive deadlines, budgets, competing opinions, and the unpleasant realization that not every interesting thought is worth dragging across the finish line. Architecture tends to work these conditions out for you, which is why the creative process starts to look a lot different after you have watched good ideas hold up, and bad ones turn like a pork sandwich left out in the sun.

In today's post and podcast, Andrew Hawkins, AIA, LEED AP, NCARB and I discuss the "Creative Process," something that has less to do with inspiration and personal genius and more about working the solution ... less glamorous but more predictable. In this episode, we discuss:

- The Need for a Creative Process
- A Path to the Work
- Creativity Requires Judgement
- The Cost of Bad Ideas

Creativity has always gotten better press than it probably deserves, mostly because people prefer the version of the story where ideas arrive like gifts instead of the one where they have to be tested, trimmed, defended, and occasionally put out of their misery. Practice has a way of correcting that misunderstanding because the longer you do this work, the more obvious it becomes that good design is not built on inspiration alone; it is built on the ability to recognize what belongs, what does not, and what is about to become very expensive if nobody steps in. Experience earns its keep here, not because it makes someone more imaginative, but because it sharpens the instincts that keep a project from wandering off into the weeds wearing a clever hat. Clear work rarely announces how much sorting went into it, which is probably why people keep confusing elegance with ease. Architects still need ideas, obviously, but ideas by themselves are cheap, and the world is full of them. Judgment is where the real value starts to show up, even if it is far less fun to put on a poster.

Special Thanks to episode sponsor Construction Specialties for their ongoing support of the Life of an Architect podcast.

Ep 198: The Creative Process | Why creativity in architecture depends on process, judgment, and knowing which ideas are worth pursuing

As veteran architects retire, the profession risks losing hard-won knowledge, mentorship, and judgment no handbook can r...
03/22/2026

As veteran architects retire, the profession risks losing hard-won knowledge, mentorship, and judgment no handbook can replace.

This is an important topic, and when motivated, most people can probably argue both sides of the position. Andrew Hawkins, AIA, LEED AP, NCARB, and I discuss what appears to be the next logical section of the conversation we had in "Ep 196: Do Architects Retire," and we cover all the knowledge that leaves when someone actually does retire.

So, is there a knowledge gap in the architecture industry? We get into the following discussion points:
- The Demographic Reality
- The Mentorship/Apprenticeship Gap
- Architecture as a "Knowledge-Dense" Profession
- What Might Actually be Lost

At the end, it would appear that there is evidence to support this concept. The interesting part begins with discussing how critical this knowledge is, considering emerging technologies and the ever-changing methodologies and techniques implicit in this industry.

I am interested in what others think on this subject - is it something we need to be paying attention to, or is this fear-mongering? Maybe a bit of both?

Special Thanks to episode sponsor Construction Specialties for their ongoing support of the Life of an Architect podcast.

Ep197: The Knowledge Gap: As veteran architects retire, the profession risks losing hard-won knowledge, mentorship, and judgment no handbook can replace.

Retirement is one of those ideas that sounds simple right up until you apply it to architects, and then it starts to fal...
03/08/2026

Retirement is one of those ideas that sounds simple right up until you apply it to architects, and then it starts to fall apart almost immediately. The idea itself seems straightforward enough – work for a long time, reach some undetermined age, and then walk off into the sunset … except architects don’t really seem to follow this script. When you identify who you are with what you do, there is no clean break. What happens now – do we even know what the word retirement means?

In the latest Life of an Architect podcast and post, Andrew Hawkins, AIA, LEED AP, NCARB and I spend some time pulling the curtain back on retirement (the bad and the hopeful) while discussing if architects actually retire, what happens next, identity and relevance once you aren't "architectect-ing" every day, and lastly, the very real aspect of retirement money.

I will say that retirement is not a finish line in architecture so much as a change in authorship, where you stop letting deadlines and other people’s emergencies plan your weeks for you. The goal is not to prove you are still relevant, and it is not to vanish quietly so nobody has to adjust their org chart. A better goal is to decide what deserves your effort now that you get to be picky, and to accept that being picky is not selfish, it’s overdue. Some people will stay close to the work, some will run in the opposite direction, and most will do a little of both, depending on how much sleep they got and how annoying their last meeting felt.



Special thanks to episode sponsor Construction Specialties for their ongoing support.

Ep 196: Do Architects Retire explores why architects work longer, what comes next, identity shifts, and how money choices that shape retirement options.

Designing your own house sounds like the kind of project architects should eventually take on, yet the closer it gets, t...
02/22/2026

Designing your own house sounds like the kind of project architects should eventually take on, yet the closer it gets, the more complicated it becomes. Personal work removes the professional buffer, which means every decision carries a little extra weight, even the ones that seem minor on paper. The process forces priorities to declare themselves, because not everything can be protected, afforded, or justified at the same time. The temptation to make a statement is real, and the quieter challenge is making sure the house still supports the life happening inside it. Plenty of architects discover that the hardest part isn’t drawing the plans, it’s deciding what matters when the client, designer, and critic are all the same person.

And then there is that matter of paying for it all.

Fun topic we are discussing on the current podcast episode, and if you are motivated to check out the actual blog post, you will find that I am using my own house design as the case study to facilitate today's discussion.

Special thanks to episode sponsor Construction Specialties - those folks are incredible.

Designing Your Own House explores why architects hesitate to design their own homes: pressure, endless choices, ego vs livability, money, and what it reveals.

Every so often, a topic comes up that sounds straightforward on the surface, but the longer you sit with it, the harder ...
02/08/2026

Every so often, a topic comes up that sounds straightforward on the surface, but the longer you sit with it, the harder it is to pin down. Being your own boss is one of those ideas. It gets talked about like a destination, or a title, or a clean break from something else, even though most of the time what people are really reacting to is a feeling rather than a plan. That tension is where today’s episode lives. This isn’t a conversation about starting your own firm or quitting your job. It’s a conversation about control, responsibility, and the slow realization that the path you’re on might not be the one you ever actually chose.

Being your own boss, in the end, isn’t a finish line or a title you earn, and it isn’t reserved for people who step outside traditional structures. It’s a posture toward your work and your life that starts with admitting where choice still exists and where it doesn’t. Most careers are shaped less by bold decisions than by quiet defaults, and those defaults only gain power when they go unexamined. Responsibility has a way of narrowing options while sharpening priorities, which is why control often feels more complicated later than earlier. Ownership, in this sense, isn’t about freedom from limits so much as awareness of them. The real shift comes when you recognize which constraints are worth carrying and which ones you’ve simply been living with out of habit. That awareness doesn’t simplify the path, but it does make it yours.

Special thanks to episode sponsor Construction Specialties for their ongoing support of the Life of an Architect podcast.

Being your own boss isn’t about starting a firm. It’s about control, momentum, money, and owning the tradeoffs shaping your career long before you noticed.

Maybe a week or two ago, it’s early evening and I get a call on my cellphone and for some reason, I decided to answer it...
01/25/2026

Maybe a week or two ago, it’s early evening and I get a call on my cellphone and for some reason, I decided to answer it (something I don’t actually do if no name pops up on the caller ID). This was from someone I didn’t know, but he tracked me down because he had listened to the podcast, actually lives here in Dallas, and he had some opinions to share – possibly topics for Andrew and I to discuss on the podcast. He was not trying to be provocative; he was observing that architects often sound like they resent the very people who hire them, as if clients are a necessary evil, and that we frequently come off as arrogant. I ended up talking with this gentleman for almost an hour and it was an interesting conversation. I will admit that I reacted to his comments initially in a defensive manner, but as we talked, I understood what he was describing but still felt the need to explain why residential architects might act a particular way when someone calls them up out of the blue. His observations stung a bit because they were not entirely wrong, yet they also missed the weight of what architects are carrying when they show up to these initial conversations.

Most of the frustration architects feel around clients isn’t rooted in bad intentions or unreasonable people. It comes from assumptions colliding early and then hardening before anyone takes the time to slow things down. Clients don’t arrive fluent in architecture, and there’s no reason they should. Architects are still service providers, and the service they offer isn’t just design, it’s judgment, guidance, and clarity inside a process that feels risky and unfamiliar. When architects accept that responsibility and make the invisible parts of the work visible, the client experience shifts from guarded negotiation to shared momentum.

I decided to turn this call into today's post and podcast topic.

Special thanks to episode sponsor Construction Specialties for their ongoing support of the Life of an Architect podcast.

Ep 193: The Client Experience, looks at why client relationships feel adversarial and why architects have more control than they think.

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