03/05/2025
Reclaiming Lost Family: Letters to Stolen Loved Ones
In March 2025, the MJCF Coalition launched the national project.
"Letters to Stolen Loved Ones", is a powerful initiative rooted in both history and resistance. These letters—written by parents to children adopted through the child welfare system, or by children forcibly separated from their families due to government intervention—mirror a painful legacy in Black history: the desperate searches for family members sold during enslavement.
Much like the classified ads placed in newspapers during Reconstruction, where formerly enslaved individuals sought their stolen kin -calling out names, last known locations, and shared memories - these modern-day letters serve as a testament to the unyielding love and determination of families torn apart by another oppressive system: family policing.
In the book, Last Seen, Judith Giesberg documented the voices of Black families who, after generations of forced separation, used whatever means they could to reconnect with lost loved ones.
Today, the MJCF Coalition carries that same spirit forward.
Through guided writing sessions, parents and children affected by the child welfare system are given space to:
🖊 Write letters to those they were separated from
📖 Reclaim their narratives & document their love
💔 Challenge the falsehood that they were unwanted
📢 Push back against systems that erase family bonds
These letters are more than words on a page. They are acts of resistance, calls for reunion, and proof that love endures—even when families are torn apart.
To learn more about the "Letters to Stolen Loved Ones" project, visit the MJCF Coalition Website
The MJCF Coalition is a grassroots, antiracist organization for and by the people directly impacted by the family policing system (Child Welfare - Child Protective Services) nationwide.