05/24/2026
My first op-ed just got published in about why modern dating feels so broken.
Spoiler: it’s not the city you live in.
It’s the dates you’re going on.
TL/DR: Healing the dating divide probably won’t come from going on 3–4 first dates a week with strangers from the internet.
It will come from dating inside a community, seeing the same people consistently, and giving attraction enough time and context to actually build.
I had a lot of fun writing this one and I hope it’s equally fun to read.