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I turn expertise into live, profitable experiences.

Some event themes are not tired.Our interpretation of them is.Great Gatsby does not have to mean feathers and ch*****ne ...
10/02/2026

Some event themes are not tired.
Our interpretation of them is.

Great Gatsby does not have to mean feathers and ch*****ne towers.
Masquerade does not have to stop at masks.
Casino Night can be more than rented blackjack tables.
And “enchanted” should probably require more than adding wisteria.

The problem starts when the theme becomes a decorating instruction instead of an experience to design.

There is still plenty of life in familiar concepts.

We just have to stop building the most obvious version of them.

What should it feel like to be inside the idea?
That is where the interesting work starts.
Share this with someone planning an event that deserves a rethink.

10/01/2026

For the record most swag sucks.
no one wants another thing with your brand name on it.
As we go back to live and in person events, people are gonna be looking for meaningful swag.
Things that are useful that have a utility about it.

I’m going to deep dive into the swag conversation along with many other things that my next complementary Tea and Teach.
Link will be in description

October 14
Noon to 1 PM Eastern standard time

When the event is over and suddenly nobody wants the centerpieces.And please don't look at me. I don't want them either....
10/01/2026

When the event is over and suddenly nobody wants the centerpieces.

And please don't look at me. I don't want them either. 😂

I love beautiful event design. I am also a proponent of sustainability, which means I want us thinking beyond how something looks during the few hours our guests are in the room.

What happens to it next?

Can it be rented instead of purchased?
Can it be reused at another event?
Can it be donated?
Can it be repurposed?
Can we design it so guests genuinely want to take it home?

Sustainability does not mean your event has to be less beautiful. It means we consider the full life of the things we choose.

The breakdown should not be the first time we ask, “What are we going to do with all of this?”

That is part of designing the experience, too.

Want to think differently about how your events work?

🎟️Join me for my complimentary Mini Event Marketing Masterclass.
📅October 14 | 12 pm EST
https://www.sybilstewart.com/event-details/tea-teach-masterclass-experiential-marketing-design

What is the best post-event use you've seen for centerpieces or décor?

The event started 20 minutes ago.Your guests are still at registration. 😬A registration bottleneck usually is not a “we ...
09/30/2026

The event started 20 minutes ago.

Your guests are still at registration. 😬

A registration bottleneck usually is not a “we need more people at the table” problem.

It is a flow problem.

Too many tasks happening at check-in.

No separate process for exceptions.

Everyone arriving through the same line.

And nobody did the math on how many people would arrive at once.
Registration is the first system your guests experience.
Make it feel like you were expecting them.

Save this carousel before your next event.

09/30/2026

Nope! We pay everyone. If you can afford to pay for the venue, staffing and music you can afford to pay experts and entertainment.

I don’t mind a “good cause” if that’s the ask for all vendors not just the ones you don’t realize you should value.

Am I wrong here???

Food that photographs well but does not get eaten is not automatically a good guest experience.Whole apples. Giant bunch...
09/29/2026

Food that photographs well but does not get eaten is not automatically a good guest experience.

Whole apples. Giant bunches of grapes. Oranges that need to be peeled. Fruit stacked into elaborate displays that guests are afraid to disturb.

The event is over.

The fruit display is still full.

And somehow we are calling it a successful display because it looked beautiful.

A beautiful display that nobody touches becomes expensive décor.

Design the food for the guest, not just the photograph.

Build What’s Rare.
Save this post before you approve your next catering display.

Those enormous displays can look impressive when doors open, but guests often eat a surprisingly small percentage of the...
09/29/2026

Those enormous displays can look impressive when doors open, but guests often eat a surprisingly small percentage of them. You paid for the fruit, prep, labor, display, replenishment, and sometimes specialty vessels or styling, only to have a significant amount left at the end.

The question is not “Does it look good?”

It is “Is this where I want to spend money to improve the guest experience?”

Do guests want more fruit or a better dining experience overall?

Which do you prefer? COMMENT NOW

Event management is a partnership.I learned this lesson very clearly while planning an event at a historic property.The ...
09/29/2026

Event management is a partnership.

I learned this lesson very clearly while planning an event at a historic property.

The venue had one very specific rule: no silly string.

Silly string ended up in the trees anyway.

When the client asked about getting her deposit back, the answer was no.

As the event planner, there were plenty of things I could manage. I could communicate the venue requirements, coordinate vendors, manage the timeline, oversee logistics, and address problems as they arose.

What I could not do was personally supervise every adult guest.

That distinction matters.

A great planner should anticipate problems and build systems that reduce the likelihood of something going wrong. But the host also has a role in setting expectations for the people they invite.

The planner manages the experience.
The host sets expectations for their guests.

The strongest events happen when both understand their role.

Planning an event and want the experience and the systems behind it designed intentionally? DM me “STAGE” and let’s talk about your event.

09/28/2026

You want a little chocolate with your oil?
That’s essentially what a chocolate fountain is.

A whole lotta oil with a little chocolate just for color.

What’s your “no” food for events?
Comment below

The venue said no silly string.Somehow, the silly string still ended up in the trees.At a historic property.Then came th...
09/28/2026

The venue said no silly string.

Somehow, the silly string still ended up in the trees.

At a historic property.

Then came the question about getting the deposit back.

They did not get the deposit back.
Your guests are your responsibility not the venue.

It is not enough to say, “Well, I didn't do it.”

make sure your guests understand the rules that protect the venue, the experience, and your investment.

Did the venue overreact? COMMENT Below

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