09/17/2026
What if the thing getting in your way IS the way?
It’s one of my favorite ideas, and one I come back to constantly in my work with leaders.
✔️ The difficult employee.
✔️ The conversation you keep avoiding.
✔️ The process that keeps breaking.
✔️ The customer frustration you keep hearing.
✔️ The change your team is resisting.
Our instinct is often to get navigate the obstacle so we can get back to the “real work.”
But sometimes the obstacle is showing us exactly WHAT AND WHERE the real work is.
What needs to change, to be said, to be learned to be different.
So maybe the question isn’t: How do I get around this?
Maybe it’s: What is this obstacle making possible?