07/28/2025
āWill Everyone Just Calm Down?ā ā A Dogās Take on Pressure
Hello, human. Yes, you. The one with the lead, the treats, the voice that goes all squeaky when you say, āWhoās a good boy?ā (Itās me. I am. But letās not get distracted.)
I wanted to have a word. A proper, no-nonsense chat about something thatās quietly messing with our heads and no, itās not the squirrel that lives behind the fence (though I will get him one day). Iām talking about pressure.
Not the sort of pressure that makes your head hurt after too much coffee or when your phone wonāt load. I mean the invisible stuff you pile on us dogs every time we leave the house.
You might not notice it. But we do.
Pressure? What Pressure?
Let me paint you a picture. You clip on my lead, shout something about a āwalkiesā (I know it means excitement, my tail told me so), and off we go. But the moment we step out that door, itās like walking into a world of ticking time bombs.
I donāt just mean traffic and flappy plastic bags (both terrifying in their own way), but all the things you expect of me.
⢠Walk nicely.
⢠Donāt bark at the other dog.
⢠Donāt sniff the bin.
⢠Donāt jump up.
⢠Donāt pull.
⢠Donāt poo there.
⢠Donāt eat that.
⢠Donāt growl at Daveās Dachshund (he started it).
You see where Iām going with this?
To you, itās just a nice stroll. To me, itās a constant mental juggling act. If I get it wrong? You sigh. Or tighten the lead. Or call me ānaughtyā. The pressure builds.
But Why Do We Crumble?
Hereās the thing: some of us dogs are born ready for anything. Bombproof, confident, breezy. Labradors with the emotional stability of a yoga teacher. But others? Not so much.
Some of us are worriers. Weāre hyper-aware, a bit sensitive, maybe even a touch dramatic (I prefer āemotionally tuned-in,ā thank you very much).
And when weāre not taught how to cope, how to deal with pressure, it starts to leak out. It might show up as:
⢠Barking, lunging, or spinning like a washing machine.
⢠Completely ignoring you and pretending weāre deaf.
⢠Shutting down and refusing to move, yes, the dramatic pancake pose.
⢠Growling or snapping (which, by the way, is us saying, āIāve had enough!ā).
None of these mean weāre bad dogs. It just means weāve hit our limit. We werenāt trained to handle pressure. We were just expected to get on with it.
So What Can You Do About It, Human?
Iām glad you asked. Hereās what we dogs need from you (yes, I made a list, Iām organised like that):
1. Build Resilience, Not Just Obedience
Sit, down, stay, lovely stuff. But if I canāt cope with the world around me, what good is a perfect āheelā? Train me to handle novelty, stress, and change. Gradually. Kindly. Consistently.
2. Donāt Throw Me in at the Deep End
You wouldnāt take a nervous swimmer to a wave pool on day one, would you? So donāt drag me into dog-packed parks or crowded cafĆ©s until Iāve got the tools to cope. Start small. Build up. Let me win.
3. Recognise the Signs
Watch my body. My ears, my eyes, my tail. If Iām tense, panting, yawning, looking away, or licking my lips, Iām not being cute. Iām stressed. Do something before I have to shout about it.
4. Let Me Succeed
Set me up for wins. Let me sniff. Let me explore. Let me have a bit of agency. Give me choices. (But maybe not about dinner, Iād choose sausage every time.)
5. Praise Progress, Not Perfection
If I tried my best not to bark at the spaniel in the ridiculous jumper, but I did a little growl, maybe thatās a win for me today. Recognise it. Celebrate it. Donāt expect perfection, Iām not a robot.
Pressureās Not Always Bad, But It Must Be Taught
Look, Iām not saying wrap me in cotton wool and carry me round in a buggy (seriously, stop doing that to Pomeranians, theyāve got legs too).
Some pressure is good. It shapes us. Teaches us. Builds grit. But like your own stress, it has to be manageable. It has to be supported. It has to be something I learn to handle, not just survive.
So next time you take me out and I stop to sniff the same bush for the fifth time, just give me a moment. Maybe Iām not being awkward. Maybe Iām just regulating my own stress.
And if youāre patient and kind and actually listen to what Iām trying to say, I promise Iāll try my best to be brave.
Now⦠can we go back to that squirrel thing?
Final Woof
Pressure is inevitable, in life, in training, in everyday outings. But resilience isnāt inherited; itās built. So build it with us. One calm, thoughtful, tail-wagging step at a time.
Because if we learn how to cope when the world gets noisy, smelly, unpredictable, and weird, weāll both be better for it.
And who knows? Maybe next time, I wonāt bark at Daveās Dachshund.
(But I probably still will!!! )
Credit to:
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