ShadeMakers

10/23/2026

Sometimes we mistake someone’s boundaries for rejection, when really, they’re just trying to take care of themselves.

We can love people deeply and still need space. We can say no and still care. Sometimes respecting someone’s boundaries is one of the gentlest ways to love them 🌱
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10/21/2026

There is a different between making room for others and making yourself smaller. Remind yourself that boundaries aren’t a reflection of how much we value others, but a reminder of how much we value ourselves. 🌱
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10/19/2026

Happy New Shade Reflection Friends 🌱
Boundaries aren’t a reflection of how much we value the other person, but a reflection of how deeply we’re leaning to love ourselves 🪴

Boundaries can feel uncomfortable and sometimes come with guilt, but sometimes the hardest part isn’t setting them, it’s giving ourselves permission to honor them.

This week we’re unpacking the different layers of boundaries, because loving someone and the things we do and having boundaries can exist in the same space.
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10/16/2026

10/13/2026

Hey Shade Family — we can often find ourselves praying for more, working towards more, and dreaming of more, but how often do we stop to consider what more will require of us?

Swipe through this weeks playbook on being built to sustain 🌱
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10/12/2026

New Shade Week Friends,
Talent may open the door, and charisma may create opportunities, but character is what keeps us there.
The goal isn’t just to get there. It’s to become the kind of person who can stay there & the requires integrity, humility, discipline, and a commitment to being good people.
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10/09/2026

Hey Friend, Bet on Yourself and Find the Joy in the unknown & embarrassment. Don’t let it be a thief to your curiosity of trying.
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10/08/2026

Hey ShadeMaker Friends, There is freedom in being willing to look foolish; to try something new, make mistakes, to be seen before we have it all figured out.

A moment of embarrassment is a small price to pay for a life full of possibility.

Try the thing. Bet on yourself. 🌱
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10/05/2026

Hey ShadeMaker Family — Don’t let embarrassment be the least explored emotion for you. Try the thing 🌱🤍
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10/01/2026

Sometimes we ask for a new season, then wonder why we don’t feel the most at home right away.

New can feel strange & even the places we’re meant to grow into can take time to feel like ours.

A new environment can be good for us, but it can also take time to feel like home.

Give yourself grace.
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