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The Everyday Doula Hi, I’m Patty, the Everyday Doula, a full spectrum doula in the Washington, DC area. I’d love to

This is what a hero looks like. Giving beyond fear, sadness and grief.
02/03/2021

This is what a hero looks like. Giving beyond fear, sadness and grief.

We all grieve the loss of a child very differently. In the case of moms who lose preemies, or babies who are born prior to 37 weeks in the womb, the human body will still produce breast milk for quite a long time if a mother is pumping daily. The body only responds to the request for milk by repeatedly replacing the milk that is removed from the breast tissue. If milk is not removed, the process of the breast milk "drying up" slowly begins and the body stops producing new milk. But the more quickly and the more often that the milk is removed, the more milk is produced, which is how the needs of twins, triplets, and more can be met by a breastfeeding mother.

Taylor Prats is one of many mothers who made the decision to continue pumping her milk even after the passing of her child, providing a very unique preemie specific liquid gold to other Nicu babies. Because our milk changes depending on the age of the baby, this rare type of breastmilk is a huge factor in helping to assist other preemie babies to thrive and live as their mothers likely recover from difficult and/or unexpectedly early deliveries themselves.

Taylor is truly an angel among us and she explains on her personal page that, "This milk was milk I worked so hard to pump for my sick daughter. She passed on November 30th, and this was the best way I knew to help her live on!" - WSCB

When I signed up for my doula training course, I did very little research on my instructor and hoped that the content an...
02/28/2020

When I signed up for my doula training course, I did very little research on my instructor and hoped that the content and my passion for doula work (birth-death-the full spectrum) would keep me engaged. But I was just so blessed to land in Nicole Heidbreder class in November. Someone called her our doula godmother and I feel like this is so true. Below is a piece on the work she's doing locally on death cafes and how intertwined this work is with birth. A great read. As you can tell, I'm a bit Nic fan!

“Grief is a verb.”

Such a powerful, thought provoking, intimate portrait of our doula Godmother, Claudia Booker. I never got to meet her bu...
02/24/2020

Such a powerful, thought provoking, intimate portrait of our doula Godmother, Claudia Booker. I never got to meet her but I feel her guiding me and talking to me in my journey. May she rest in power and peace. Please watch:

claudia is a newly minted cpm (she sat for the narm exam at this year's conference and passed with flying colors) and doula practicing in washington, dc. claudia's…

Please listen, learn and share. This is so important to my work as a doula.
02/21/2020

Please listen, learn and share. This is so important to my work as a doula.

If you’re riding around on this rainy morning and listening to the radio try to catch this piece on the power of midwive...
02/13/2020

If you’re riding around on this rainy morning and listening to the radio try to catch this piece on the power of midwives and doulas! Birthworkers are magic!

Compared to the rest of the developed world, the U.S. is the odd one out when it comes to how we deliver babies, because Americans have a fairly low rate of using doulas and midwifes.

02/12/2020

Anyone expecting in May and June? I’d love to help you with your upcoming deliveries and it’s never too early to plan. Reach out to me! [email protected]

Friends, I’m Patty, The Everyday Doula! I’m a full spectrum doula in the DMV area. To learn more about me and about how ...
01/20/2020

Friends, I’m Patty, The Everyday Doula! I’m a full spectrum doula in the DMV area. To learn more about me and about how I can help you with your next birth or next big life move or even just the good stuff that happens everyday, reach out to me and head to my website to learn more. I can’t wait to meet you!

Hi Friends, I'm Patty, the Everyday Doula. I made a promise to myself to focus my work on holding space for the journeys most of us will take throughout our lives. To me the doula role spans beyond what happens in the delivery room (although that's a BIG part and I LOVE it) but what happens after ....

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