12/05/2025
I cannot believe it's December 2025😩 Of course, this is everyone's time to reflect on what we did and what we're NOT GONNA DO in 2026🙃
I'll tell you now, here's my list of ish I'm not doing in 2026 (let me know which ones you can relate to):
🛑 not feeling obligated to be everything for everyone: baby, your sis is TIRED and I can no longer be all things to people who won't even show up for themselves. Which leads me to...
🛑 lowering my standards and doing the work for other people: in this next season, you're going to have to show up for you. I'm not stepping into other people's roles. I'm finding (or letting God release) new people every time. I'm also not going to act like I'm not THEE BIANCA MODO. Let me humbly say, everything is big over here💅🏽 Standards high just like my heels😬
🛑 thinking small and doubting what God places in my hand: I'm bold enough to admit that I constantly question if I'm qualified to do everything that is required of me... being a mom, friend, supporter, running a nonprofit, planning events, sitting on boards and in rooms I feel like an outcast... but then I remember, GOD PUT ME HERE. And no one ever treats me like I don't belong and when I show up, I take up space, gracefully. ☺️
The moment we realize that this is a journey and we don't have to have all the answers immediately is the moment we can relax into the flow of just BEING. I have no idea how I keep it together and my to do list never seems to let up, BUT I refuse to quit.
2026 is about seeing myself in the highest version possible, letting go of what doesn't serve me, and walking in excellence.
I cannot play it safe. I will NOT play it safe. And just know you will see more of me in many places wearing many hats.🫶🏾❤️
Take a moment to BREATHE, REFLECT, & NOTATE what worked and didn't work for you in 2025.
Kudos to my friends, colleagues, and loved ones treading new waters and never letting up. I see you.😍
Cheers to being free from 2025. We earned it.