Tim Lane & Associates

02/10/2026

I really enjoyed my time with Real Talk in Canada a few weeks ago. Here I speak about doing conflict well as well as practicing forgiveness. I still have a lot of growing to do even though I may be able to speak about them with some degree of clarity!

In this episode of Real Talk, we take an honest look at conflict and forgiveness—two realities every Christian faces because every Christian is in relationsh...

08/16/2025

What I'm reading now. Very helpful and practical book for understanding Internal Family Systems (IFS).

08/10/2025

02/05/2025

I am excited to have Erin join the team of Tim Lane & Associates. She brings rich training and experience as a licensed therapist to the practice. Read about her credentials here and consider doing some counseling with her. https://timlane.org/erin-wisehart

01/07/2025

I am looking forward to presenting some helpful material for couples who are married as well as anyone who is in relationships with others. Most of the relational habits that are important for marriage are relevant for any and all relationships. Just because you see this advertised as a "Marriage Conference" don't be fooled. This is for everyone. Here is a link to the church and its location: https://communitychurchgriffin.org/

08/02/2023

Helpful article on yet another layer where couples' differences can complicate a relationship. This one is much more subtle and hard to see as a counselor.

Neurodivergence includes Autism and ADHD, Dyslexia, Sensory Processing Difficulties, Dyspraxia, Dyscalculia, Synesthesia and OCD

06/28/2023

No matter what you're facing, you are not alone. Christ, who himself suffered immensely, is with you. He understands our pain and suffering, and we can find solace in his Word. ❤️

If you are struggling with PTSD, we encourage you to follow the link in the comments below to hear from Dr. Tim Lane on how to heal from disabling trauma and PTSD. He shares some of the keys to beginning the healing process.

If you know someone struggling with PTSD, Dr. Lane will give you insight into how you can help create a safe community and come alongside them in the gradual process of restoration.

07/29/2022

I had the opportunity to contribute to this article on "Stay at Home Dads." What are your thoughts?

As more dads become primary caregivers to their children, many learn to homeschool and navigate expectations

07/06/2022

There are many layers to anxiety. In this latest blog I discuss how your autonomic nervous system functions when you are struggling with anxiety and what you can do to regulate it?

In my last blog, I mentioned a few changes that I made in the newly revised version of my book on worry. Feel free to read about the first change here . The other changes you’ll find in the newly revised version involve how our brain and autonomic nervous system functions when we are struggling wi

03/11/2022

Did you know that you can get a free study guide that follows my latest book at this link? A 75 page writable PDF companion to Unstuck: A Nine-Step Journey to Change That Lasts.
https://timlane.org/free-unstuck-study-guide

02/26/2022

I thoroughly enjoyed my time with this group on Thursday. An important ministry for moms in a busy season of life. Thank you for the invitation!

Did you take so many notes yesterday too?? One of our favorite points from Dr. Lane was how the four character traits from Ephesians are essential to healthy relationships: humility, gentleness, patience and forbearance. 💛