11/18/2023
I remember the day I read Exodus 34:6-7 and got so angry that I threw my Bible against the wall and yelled, "Bu****it!"
The verse says that God does not leave the guilty unpunished (okay, cool I guess), but he also punishes the children and their children for the sins of their parents to the third and fourth generation (say what?).
I don't know about you, but I don't see how a loving and forgiving Father God can do this.
Especially not with MY family.
I mean, let a grudge go, man.
But it doesn't work that way.
At least not in fundamentalist religion.
People can say how great and good and loving the big man upstairs is, but the book and the sermons paint a much different story.
And what people in the Church don't understand is that this is why SO many people are leaving in droves.
It is the very foundational beliefs of high-controlling, fundamentalist religions that make people want to leave.
Things like being punished for what other people do.
Or for who you are.
Or telling you that you're bad and a sinner just for being born.
I don't think so.
Doubling down on these teachings creates more non-believers than one might think, but the only answers you're given are:
* Pray more
* Read the Bible more
* Talk to Jesus more
* Put away Worldly things
* Satan must be tempting you
Thanks, but if you're like me, you've been there, done that.
It's not like I wasn't regularly reading, attending Sunday school classes. or studying and praying daily. And I'm sure you've done all these things, too.
So what is the answer?
Be still and connect with YOU.
Your voice. Yourself.
Listen to who you are.
Listen for the REAL small, still voice within.
And see where it goes.
What it says.
Because I can tell you one thing: No real, loving Divine will punish you and your children and your children's children just because someone up your family tree did something they didn't like.
You're an incredible person, deserving of love and respect from a Source that actually cares about you and wants the best for you.
Not one that is controlling, judgemental, or vindictive. Because that's not a real God - that's just a horror story that people made up to scare you.
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