Malaika Neri - Advanced Relationship Skills

10/22/2024

I've made 5 weddings happen in the last 5 years. Here's what I've learnt:

1. You decide when you meet someone.
My student Mini said, "I decided that this year I was going to settle." 9 months later, she was married to a man who adores her.

2. Dating can be really fun.
Katrina was living in a small town with not many restaurants. She went to the big city to meet the guys I'd matched her with. She didn't like the guys, but she loved trying new vegetarian restaurants (food is her passion!).

3. When you meet the right person, it's obvious.
Kanchan and Rahul met while living in different countries, 8000 miles apart. 2 months later, they were married.

4. Love is a skill you can learn.
"There have been so many skills to learn," said Megan. "These things were also hurting me in my professional life. I just never realized."

5. Getting help is 10x faster/easier than going it alone.
"I got married, to a guy who was perfect on paper. I was with a guy with whom I had insane chemistry. Neither worked. It's so intimidating going this alone. I'm so glad I have you," said Jenny, who just found her perfect match.

My name is Malaika Neri. I help smart Indian women meet a man you can imagine marrying.

If you'd like to chat more about how I can help you find your husband, within the next 6 months, comment or DM me "MATCH" and I'll share more info with you (free).

Here's to your success in the Soulmate Journey.

xoxo
Malaika Neri

07/24/2024

I'm starting a new matchmaking program, and looking for 3 women, who are:

👉🏽 27-35 years old

👉🏽 ready to fall in love & get married

👉🏽 This is a top priority for you right now

In this 3-month program, you'll be introduced to men who are all:

✅ Indian men grown up in the US (citizens)
✅ ambitious educated professionals
✅ open-minded and progressive
✅ fit & active & go to the gym
✅ family-oriented & kind

If you or someone you know would like to apply, comment or DM me "PROGRAM" and we can take it from there.

xoxo

Malaika "fall in love" Neri

07/02/2024

I'm a Professional Indian Matchmaker helping Indian American women 27-35 meet someone compatible.

I have put together a few profiles of smart, attractive, ambitious Indian men living in the U.S.

These men are:

✅ U.S. citizens (Western mindset)

✅ Vegetarian

✅ 30-35 years old

✅ Educated ambitious professionals

✅ Ready for marriage & want to have kids

If you'd like a copy of these profiles

DM me PROFILES and I'll send them to you.

xoxo
Malaika Neri
Professional Indian Matchmaker

06/28/2024

If you're not scared, you're probably a weirdo.

Women ask me all the time, "How can I trust and pay you? What is your authenticity? I fear that I will just loose my time and money if you don't find a good match for me."

It’s completely normal to have this fear. Fear is what holds us women back from taking that terrifying first step in the dating process. But you did it. You've reached out. Maybe you sent me a DM. Or you've followed me on socials. Or you've joined my free email newsletter.

You did that. You are clearly capable of feeling fear, recognizing it’s because you are building a new habit, trying a new process, and deciding to trust, step by step.

Taking the decision to work with a Professional Indian Matchmaker means putting the fear aside and saying, “I am going to give 100% to every meeting, and look forward to meeting my life partner. I know that I’m doing the best I can with what I’ve got. I’m not going to worry about all the negative possibilities, because that just distracts me from my goal: to find someone aligned with whom I can build.”

You can feel the fear and do it anyway.

We humans are programmed to feel fear, so if you feel zero fear, you're probably a weirdo.

And if you DO feel lots of fear, join the club.

Feel the fear, and do it anyway.

06/27/2024

INDIAN-AMERICAN GUYS WHO WANT TO SETTLE DOWN

I'm a Professional Indian Matchmaker working with female consultants, engineers, managers, and scientists. I work with smart corporate employees 27-35 who want to get married & start a family.
Lookikng for Indian guys who are ready to settle down:

- US citizens raised in the US or Canada, resident anywhere in the continental US.
- Full-time job or business doing $250k+ annual revenue
- Ages 30-35
- Veg/Non-veg
- Want to get married & have kids

It's FREE for the guys to meet my clients.

If you know someone or fit the above criteria, please DM me "PROFILES".

xoxo
Malaika Neri
Professional Indian Matchmaker

06/03/2024

3 Steps to Chemistry & Connection with Attractive, Ambitious Men

This is for you if you want to feel the spark inside you.
So far, you may have met a lot of nice people. The men are all educated professionals. You experience them being nice people, but with little to no sparkle. It's been a long time since you've looked forward to meeting someone. You need that feeling that you have a VIBE with someone.

I'm going to take you from getting friendzoned to a fun, flirtatious vibe with your matches. I'll be covering:⁠

⁠⭐️ 3 Insider Secrets of the Ultra Confident (that you can use to generate instant attraction)⁠
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⭐️ Creating the Spark: How to show up with your full self and make a great first impression (while being unabashedly yourself)

⭐️ Easy Steps to Ease & Comfort: 3-part proven framework to build Know, Like, and Trust with Husband-Material Men (so they want to open up to you).
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⭐️ PLUS: 2 BONUS sessions sent to all registered participants on how to reciprocate and make him feel comfortable as well!

100% Effective. 100% Free.

Join us: https://lu.ma/cxab4tvb

xoxo
Malaika “make it sparkle” Neri

05/29/2024

Back then, we travelled on a whim.

Back then, I did the job I'd studied for.

Back then, I didn't make long-term plans.

But oh, how the mountains filled me. Huge peaks rising into the blue skies. Bears on the prowl near and far. Berries to fill my belly at every corner.

So went a month in Alaska - the final frontier.

A place I'd always dreamed of visiting.

And one day, with a skinny bicycle and 3000 calories for breakfast, I did.

Yes, I was terrified by the wildlife.

Yes, it is full of people who told me Obama is not American.

Yes, everyone has (and uses) their guns.

There are no appropriate words for experiences I loved but don't miss.

Someone I once knew said it best:

"Life is for the living, if living can be this."

Photo from an email I sent my accountant while we were discussing my income taxes that year (LOL). Because even when you're having the time of your life, you've gotta pay taxes.

05/13/2024

More dates are usually a bad idea.

Most single women think, let me go on as many dates as possible, and eventually I’ll meet the right guy.

This makes sense if all of your current dates are a 10/10.

If they’re anything less, you’re probably not dating the RIGHT guys !

To figure out which TYPE of guy is right for you, I teach my students to go to lots of live, in-person events where you can meet a wide VARIETY of people who share your interests, background, and/or lifestyle.

These events give you data points on what type of person is a good fit for you.

When you’re sure about the right TYPE to pursue, then and only then do you add gas and go on more dates with that particular type!

Follow for more content on how to meet the right man for you 😘

05/09/2024

04/18/2024

Join me for a live workshop: 6 Months to Your Perfect Match

This Sunday, 21 April, I'm hosting a live workshop showing you how YOU can meet YOUR Perfect Match within the next 6 months.

WHEN: 10am ET | 3pm GMT | 4pm CET | 7:30 pm IST

You will learn:

👉 3 Steps to Meet the Right Guy for you within the next 6 Months

👉 How to Identify Your Serious Options

👉 5 Things You can stop worrying about today

Zero gatekeeping. Plus, you can ask me any/all Q's live on Zoom.

Join us:
advancedrelationshipskills.com/workshop

xoxo
Malaika "match to marriage" Neri

04/12/2024

Can you really go from Single to Relationship within 30 days?

It happened to Mayuri - my lovely student who's now in a happy relationship :)

"He is a perfect blend of an introvert and an extrovert, he listens to me attentively when I have something to say and I learn a lot from his stories when he's talking to me about his experiences. I think I cannot ask for more," she told me.

I LOVED hearing her story and I think you will, too.

Click here to watch Mayuri share her story (9 min).

https://vimeo.com/929643182?share=copy

xoxo
Malaika "30 days" Neri

04/01/2024

A few weeks ago, my coach left me feedback.

He spent 2 hours to give me answers to a recurring issue.

He left it as voicemails, on Facebook messenger, on my personal FB account.

2 weeks later, I still hadn't listened to his voicemails.

🤯🤯🤯

In every other area of my life, I'm an action-taker. I get my work done. Taxes submitted. Work out every day. Eat healthy. Bla bla.

Yet I could not make myself listen to his voicemails. I used every procrastination trick in the book:

💩 "It's too late, I need to get to bed." (while scrolling IG).

💩 "It'll take too long." (while spending an hour editing a reel).

💩 "Now is not the right time." (while listening to a boring podcast).

He is a super kind guy. Has a gentle, calm voice. It's not him.

Deep down, I was afraid of rejection.

😩 What if he told me there was something wrong with me?

😩 What if his feedback meant I wasn't good enough?

😩 What if he asked me to do something and I failed?

On and on.

In the meanwhile, those voicemails gnawed at me, all day and all night.

In the end, accountability saved me.

I sat down to write this, and I just couldn't make myself tell you that I hadn't taken action.

So, I set down my laptop. Cooked lunch. And while my food cooked on the stove, I grabbed an old bill and began taking notes from his voicemails.

In total, he left me 28 voice notes (!).

Each was about a minute long.

While listening, I was still so distracted.

🤷‍♀️ DMing someone who wants to join my program.

🤷‍♀️ Emptying the dishwasher (even though it was already empty).

🤷‍♀️ Checking for brown spots on my house plant.

Every procrastination trick in the book.

But I forced myself. And my coach Ben's advice was so gentle.

"Let me know if there's more I can do, I'd LOVE to make sure you're able to figure this out," he ended.

WOW!

It was so beautiful. And the relief once I'd finished this task!

We high-achieving women love to avoid doing what is most important to us.

We achieve so much work. Maybe you're in a master's degree, and doing well at that too.

But when it comes to our personal lives, we avoid taking action. Even at the cost of finding purpose and deep satisfaction.

I'm no exception to that rule!

Accountability saved me. Accountability to you.

Today I can write to you and say, I listened to Ben's voicemails. I took notes. I am implementing his recommendations.

Accountability can be to a friend or family member.

But for me, the best accountability is to someone who will do everything it takes to make sure you achieve your goals. You being here, reading this does that for me, and I'm here to do that for you.

Comment CALL so we can book you a 9-min Dating Breakthrough Call on my calendar. On this call we make a 3-step plan.

We'll use this plan to hold you accountable to your dream to get engaged by Christmas 2024.

xoxo
Malaika "accountability saved me" Neri