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Alicia James: Serial Entrepreneur, Small Business Advocate, Business Coach, and Authentic Human

03/30/2026

Not all women who build infrastructure end up in history books.
Some end up in old family photo albums, remembered through funny stories told around a dinner table.

This month it feels like stories about women building things that outlast them have been everywhere.
Women who changed laws. Built companies. Protected institutions. Expanded rights.
But the truth is, those stories aren’t rare.
They’re everywhere.

Long before I understood leadership or systems thinking, I watched it happen in my own family.

My grandmother married my grandfather and adopted his five daughters as her own, including my mom. She had three children herself from her first marriage. And together, they had two more.

Ten kids.
In a broke Midwest town.
If you were in her house, you were fed, whether you were one of her kids or a neighbor kid who happened to need a meal. Government cheese, stretched groceries, and sheer stubbornness.

She didn’t just raise kids.
She built a structure of strong matriarchs.

Eight of those ten kids were girls. They grew up watching a woman figure out how to build stability without margin. No frameworks. No applause.
Just the quiet decision, over and over again, that everyone in the house would be taken care of.

Those eight girls grew up to build very different lives: doctors, social workers, financial minds, women who work with their hands, women who stayed close, women who left and saw the world.
Different paths. Different personalities. Different politics.

But the infrastructure held:
If someone was at the table, they were fed.
If someone needed help, you showed up.
If a kid didn’t have somewhere to go, there was always room.

That blueprint multiplied.
Nearly 20 cousins now.
And another generation already expanding behind them: both in blood and in bond.

History celebrates the first: the breakthrough, the founder, the moment something changes.
But most infrastructure isn’t built in moments like that.
It’s built quietly in kitchens, homes, and families: by women who make room and keep showing up.
No one wrote books about them.
But we’re all standing on what they built.

Infrastructure stacks.

03/24/2026

History loves the founder.
The breakthrough. The dramatic moment that changes everything.
But infrastructure doesn’t survive because it was created.
It survives because someone stays.

I’ll admit it: I’m obsessed with the musical about Alexander Hamilton. Lin-Manuel Miranda tells the story of a brilliant, ambitious, chaotic man who helped shape a country.

But like most stories about powerful men, it centers the explosion and compresses everything that comes after.

In the musical, Alexander's wife Eliza gets a few minutes near the end with "main character energy": a glimpse of the decades she spent protecting his legacy.
In reality, that part of the story lasted fifty years.

Elizabeth Schuyler Hamilton knew exactly who her husband was: the brilliance and the failures. She didn’t pretend he was perfect.

She preserved what mattered, organizing and protecting his papers so the story of the early United States wouldn’t disappear.

And here’s the part that rarely gets said out loud:
She protected his legacy longer than he lived to build it.
Hamilton lived 49 years.
Eliza spent 50 years after his death preserving the work and the record of the era he helped shape.
That wasn’t nostalgia.
That was infrastructure.

But that wasn’t the only legacy she built.
While preserving his, she was quietly creating her own. Eliza helped establish New York’s first private orphanage and spent decades supporting children who had no safety net.

She was doing two things at once.
Preserving the legacy of a founding father.
Building a future for children who had no one protecting them.

History remembers the moment something is built.
But it survives because someone decides it’s worth maintaining.
Eliza Hamilton decided.

Infrastructure stacks.

03/23/2026

We celebrate the first woman to run a major global company.
But we don’t talk enough about when those opportunities appear.
Sometimes the door opens when the room is already on fire.

The first female CEO of a major global automaker stepped into the role while General Motors was facing the ignition switch scandal: congressional hearings, public scrutiny, lives lost, and a culture under a microscope.

Mary Barra didn’t inherit glory.
She inherited exposure.

There’s a pattern we don’t talk about enough. Women often rise into leadership when the ground is already unstable: when failure is hovering and reputations are on the line.
Not because they’re less capable.
Because the role itself is riskier.

Barra didn’t get symbolic leadership. She had to answer for what came before her while rebuilding what came after.

Leadership isn’t proven when the system is working.
It’s proven when the system is broken.

Sometimes the most powerful move isn’t breaking into the room.
It’s walking into the room everyone else is afraid to stand in.

Infrastructure stacks.

03/20/2026

In 1911, 146 garment workers died in the Triangle Shirtwaist Factory fire.
The doors were locked.
When the fire started, they couldn’t get out.

The owners escaped. They were charged with manslaughter: and acquitted.

That moment exposed something uncomfortable about the systems we build: workers carried the risk while leadership carried none.

One woman saw that fire and decided that if she ever held power, she would change what power owed people.

Frances Perkins went on to become the first woman in a U.S. presidential cabinet and helped build workplace safety standards, unemployment insurance, and Social Security. Before Perkins, there was no baseline expectation that employers were structurally responsible for protecting their workers.

She made protection part of the design.

Decades later, Ruth Bader Ginsburg expanded that expectation in a different arena. Perkins shifted the burden from worker to employer. Ginsburg shifted the burden from individual woman to discriminatory system.

That’s how ceilings really break.
Not one dramatic crack: but one woman rewiring the structure so the next woman starts higher.
Perkins built the guardrails.
Ginsburg widened them.

Infrastructure stacks.

03/18/2026

We love celebrating the first woman who makes it to the top.

The first millionaire. The first breakthrough. The first glass ceiling shattered.

But the real question isn’t who gets through the door.
It’s who leaves it open.

In the early 1900s, one woman didn’t just build wealth: she built a system that allowed thousands of other women to earn it too.

Madam C.J. Walker built a distribution network that trained more than 20,000 Black women to sell products, earn income, and build economic independence. She didn’t just create opportunity: she created a model where opportunity could replicate without her.

When she died, the story didn’t end.

Her daughter, A’Lelia Walker, expanded the business and turned their Harlem home into a cultural hub during the Harlem Renaissance. Writers, artists, and thinkers gathered there. Money became cultural capital.

Women like Marjorie Joyner, who worked within the Walker system, went on to innovate in their own right: inventing tools and training thousands more beauticians.

This is what we miss when we only talk about “firsts.”
The power isn’t just breaking a ceiling.
It’s building a staircase and throwing down a rope so someone else can climb.

If success dies when the founder exits, it wasn’t infrastructure.
The strongest businesses work the same way.
Walker built infrastructure.
And once you start looking for it, you realize women have been building it everywhere.

Infrastructure stacks.

01/09/2025

What if the secret to crushing your goals was hidden in the way you market your business? 🤔

I used to think life and marketing were two separate things—until I realized the same principles that drive successful campaigns can make personal goals feel manageable (and even fun).

From setting KPIs for decluttering to collaborating with my kids on post-holiday chaos, it all comes down to strategy.

Check out my latest LinkedIn article, where I break down how marketing principles can transform your life one small win at a time: https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/life-marketing-strategy-behind-your-growth-alicia-james-shumaker--ton8c/

What’s one way you’ve applied business strategies to life? I’d love to hear your thoughts!

01/06/2025

Parenting toddlers = a masterclass in market research.

I never thought analyzing my kids’ meltdowns (hungry? tired? overstimulated?) would tie back to the same skills I use in marketing—figuring out the ‘why’ behind the behavior and responding effectively.

Turns out, marketing isn’t just for business—it’s for life. Check out my latest article where I break down this epiphany and how it’s changed everything - https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/life-marketing-epiphany-changed-everything-alicia-james-shumaker--3zmec/

Have you ever connected business skills to parenting? Let’s hear it!

08/10/2024

That moment calls you out *by name* from stage…in front of 800+ women at

Wouldn’t wish to be anywhere else today with and

06/26/2024

IN CASE YOU WERE WONDERING - this is why we can’t have nice things… and I are now tackling a podcast to help business owners build a marketing strategy for 6-12 months, tell their story, share our expertise and wisdom…AND he expects me to do PAPERWORK?!

Listen and - I’m the TALENT. You’re making me work too hard. But seriously - if you’re wanting to showcase your business, tell us your story, get feedback, and build a whole brand plan with us - drop me a DM and I’ll get you on our list!

06/21/2024

Well here goes nothing…
I have envisioned being on stage at Powerhouse Women 2024 since I sat in the Breathwork Workshop with Mastry last year. I saw it. I even told I would be up there. So…in all its glory (or insanity)…here is .

The shift brought on by this community, this event, these speakers, Lindsey Schwartz…I cannot imagine who I would be today without them. I can’t imagine what will shift this year - but I’ll guarantee it’ll be MAGICAL. Hope you can join me and at this year’s event! Tix purchased - ready to migrate!

If you feel compelled to - drop some love, give me a share, and maybe leave a note below about why you think I belong on stage (I promise not to read them! 🫣) - ideally on the OG-IG, if you know what I mean! https://www.instagram.com/reel/C8ewFVnOGk5/

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