08/26/2026
An ironic lesson in how to be successtul. Please forgive a few redundancies. Stay with me here.
The story of Dolly and Whitney holds a truth about a song, a legacy, and how to build one that matters.
It is love letter of business savvy and human excellence every man and woman can learn from.
Here.
Now.
Miss Dolly Parton was velvet and steel at once. Heart and mind in exquisite balance.
She was thoughtful, a listener, an innovator, a poor little girl from Appalachia who would grow to walk into any boardroom and own the place.
Lately I have dealt with a person in a role of high corporate leadership who let my partners and me down. This person let his own people down. Promised and did not deliver. Heard but did not listen, nor seize opportunity.
It cost his organization. It will end up costing people who earn far less than he.
But there is no malice. Only care. Compassion. Learning.
Miss Dolly Parton taught the world much about these, and how to succeed.
Some of you are not old enough to remember her beginnings on television with a glittery blond crooner, Porter Wagoner. She was a young, pretty girl from the hollows of Tennessee, so easy to underestimate. But with a fire growing in her, one that refined talent and presence, "IT" factor on stage, a burning desire to help those on the downside of advantage where she had been.
Miss Dolly and Porter Wagner had a falling out, ended up in the courts. So it can be in matters here on earth. They both learned things from that shadowy time. He could not control her. She would learn her full value.
She would reconcile with him, even help him financially when he fell upon the rocks of near ruin.
That iconic song, I will Always Love You she wrote for him, about him, not Eros love, but love like family, no matter, betrayal.
No matter his feet of clay off which he would stumble to watch her soar.
They would reconcile, beautifully. She was there with his family at the bed where Porter Wagnoner died.
And now, beyond her own death bed, look at what she left us.
An American canon of music only she could make, lessons in how to be a lady, a wife, a mogul. A uniter, a magnet to nearly every prism of personality in our riven land.
She taught us all how to shine and be decent at once.
She knew how to be poor, knew how to be rich, knew the definition of enough, making sure others had enough.
And here she still can teach us all how to be.
Godspeed Miss Dolly. Here on earth, we all still have so much to learn from you, yes, even in the C suites, too often draped in the artificial royalty.
You became our queen of country music, movie glitterati, American success right out of the hollows, human generosity that knew the way back home.
Your Highness, may we keep learning from you how to keep our feet humbly on this ground.
From down here, we can scarcely imagine how other gone greats of American music played you in.