08/16/2026
I woke up today and decided I’m not moving forward with the videos I planned to make.
Not because there isn’t a story to tell, but because I’m choosing to heal instead of continuing to revisit this past dating experience.
So instead, let me encourage my ladies: be careful when dating. ❤️
Pay attention when someone comes into your life extremely strong, makes big promises very early, or makes you feel like you’ve found your person before you’ve actually had the time to know who they are.
And pay attention to the other side of it too — when someone starts making comments like, “You think you know everything,” or “You don’t really need me because you’re doing good without me.”
That can be a sign that someone wants you to feel smaller so they can feel needed.
You should never have to dim yourself to make someone feel important.
Dating requires discernment. Don’t ignore red flags because the beginning feels good. Don’t abandon your boundaries because someone is giving you attention. And don’t confuse intensity with intimacy.
Take your time. Watch the consistency. Watch the character. Watch how they handle your boundaries, your success, AND disagreements.
Disagreements are going to happen in any relationship. What matters is how someone handles them. They should be able to communicate without calling you out of your name, attacking your character, belittling you, or trying to devalue you just because they’re upset.
And remember, somebody can disagree with you without disrespecting you.
Pay attention to who someone becomes when they don’t get their way.
And most importantly, ladies, don’t be afraid to walk away from something that doesn’t feel healthy.
Sometimes the best thing you can do is stop explaining, stop exposing, stop looking for closure—and simply choose yourself.
I’m choosing peace, healing, and moving forward. 🤍
Cheers to HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS ALL 2026 🫶🏾
