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This is part 2 of a series on reputation in 2026.
04/14/2026

This is part 2 of a series on reputation in 2026.

04/13/2026

For years, family businesses have been told to “act more corporate.”

But some of the most successful companies in the world have done the opposite.

Take Hermès.

Still family-controlled.
Still deeply rooted in its identity.
Still outperforming competitors—without giving up what makes it a family business.

This isn’t accidental. It’s strategic.

A recent Harvard Business Review article reinforces what many founders get wrong:

Family businesses don’t win despite being family-run.

They win because of it.

Here’s what that actually means:

The things most businesses try to “professionalize away” are often their greatest advantage:

Trust that doesn’t need to be negotiated
Long-term thinking that isn’t driven by quarterly pressure
Relationships built over decades, not transactions

But most family businesses make the same mistake:

They try to look like everyone else.

They dilute their identity.
They overcorrect.
They trade differentiation for imitation.

And in doing so, they lose the very thing that made them strong.
The hard truth:

You don’t need to become less of a family business to scale.

You need to become a better one.

This is part 1 of a series on reputation in 2026.
03/27/2026

This is part 1 of a series on reputation in 2026.

$815,000.That's the price tag on watching TV in the back office while your family business pays you to be mayor.Meet Joh...
03/25/2026

$815,000.

That's the price tag on watching TV in the back office while your family business pays you to be mayor.

Meet John Vassilaki — former mayor of Penticton, British Columbia, and newly minted poster child for why "he's family, we'll figure it out" is not a governance strategy.

The B.C. Supreme Court just ordered him to repay $815K to his own family's liquor store. The highlights reel:

🍺 Collected $108,500 in wages while serving as mayor and physically not being at the store

🌴 Paid family members — including while they were sipping margaritas on a Mexican beach — for hours never worked

📺 Staff described his primary job function as: watching TV in the back office

💸 Used $5K of company funds to pay his personal lawyer in the wrongful dismissal suit he filed against... the company he was stealing from

The court's verdict on his wrongful dismissal claim? Thrown out. His fiduciary duties? Violated. His brother, in a separate case? Also sued him. (Family dinners must be something.)

Here's the uncomfortable truth: THIS IS NOT A CRIME STORY. IT'S A GOVERNANCE STORY.

The warning signs never look dramatic in family businesses. They look like payroll nobody questions. A "manager" who doesn't answer the phone. |

Meetings that never happen. The slow, comfortable blurring of my money and our money.

Until a judge sorts it out at $815K a lesson.

Family businesses are some of the most resilient organizations on earth — and some of the most vulnerable to exactly this kind of slow-burn dysfunction. The fix isn't complicated. But it requires structure, accountability, and someone with the authority — and the nerve — to say: "No. That's not how this works."

That's the work we do at Sider Road. Before it becomes a headline.

WHAT'S THE UNCOMFORTABLE CONVERSATION YOUR ORGANIZATION HAS BEEN AVOIDING? Drop it in the comments — or reach out privately.

Stop blaming Gen Z.1 in 5 of them are bringing a parent to job interviews. Some are letting mom negotiate their salary. ...
03/13/2026

Stop blaming Gen Z.

1 in 5 of them are bringing a parent to job interviews. Some are letting mom negotiate their salary. And everyone is losing their mind.

Here's what nobody wants to say at dinner: we built this.

The parent calling HR to dispute their 27-year-old's performance review is the same parent who called the teacher about the C. Who smoothed every rough edge. Who solved every problem before their kid had a chance to struggle through it.

We didn't accidentally raise adults who can't sit alone in a waiting room.

We engineered it. One helicopter moment at a time. With love. And an absolutely catastrophic outcome.

And now we're shocked they brought backup.

You're forwarding articles about how coddled Gen Z is — and tonight you're going home and editing your kid's résumé.

That's not irony. That's a pattern.
You can't skip the work of preparing them and then act surprised by the invoice.

Stop asking what's wrong with Gen Z.
Start asking what we modeled for them.

Full article: https://www.siderroad.com/stop-blaming-gen-z-look-in-the-mirror/

The Tisch family owns half of a $10.1 billion NFL franchise. They've had 35 years to plan succession.It took an Epstein ...
03/12/2026

The Tisch family owns half of a $10.1 billion NFL franchise. They've had 35 years to plan succession.

It took an Epstein scandal to force their hand.

This week, Steve Tisch and his siblings formally requested NFL approval to transfer their remaining ownership stake in the New York Giants to their children's trusts — after Steve's name appeared more than 440 times in Justice Department documents connected to Jeffrey Epstein. He hasn't been charged with any crime. But the reputational damage was done, and suddenly a family that had been quietly, incrementally transferring shares since 2023 needed a real plan. Fast.

Here's what I want you to notice: this succession wasn't designed. It was detonated.

I work with family business owners every day. And the Tisch story is not an outlier. It is the rule.

Families avoid succession planning the way people avoid writing wills — it feels like rehearsing your own funeral. So they wait. They make small, quiet transfers. They tell themselves the estate documents are enough. Then a crisis hits, and the governance vacuum that was always there gets exposed in the worst possible way.

Three things this story reveals that every family business owner needs to hear:

Wealth doesn't buy you governance. The Tisch family had every resource available — lawyers, bankers, advisors. And yet there was no clean structure when scandal hit. Steve reportedly keeps his chairman title even after transferring ownership. That's not succession. That's optics management.

Inheriting power is not the same as earning it. The next generation of Tisch heirs may be exactly the right people to lead this franchise. But when succession happens under duress — rushed and reactive — the process is never fully legitimate in the eyes of the stakeholders who felt left out of the decision.

A crisis doesn't create your succession problem. It reveals the one you already had. Families who have done the real work — clear governance structures, defined roles, open conversations about legacy — can absorb a crisis. Their structure holds. Families who haven't find out the hard way.

The New York Giants will be fine. The franchise is too valuable and the brand too strong.

But most family businesses aren't worth $10 billion. They don't have that margin for error.

The question isn't whether your family will face a moment that forces hard decisions about leadership and legacy. It will.

The question is whether you'll have built the structure before that moment arrives — or whether you'll be building it while the world watches.

The Tisch family had 35 years and $10 billion. They still weren't ready.

What's your excuse?

I work with family business owners on succession strategy, governance, and next-generation leadership. If this hit close to home, let's talk. I don't bite. :)

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The Charisma Masterclass is officially SOLD OUT.Thank you to everyone who secured a seat in our upcoming session in Gree...
03/07/2026

The Charisma Masterclass is officially SOLD OUT.

Thank you to everyone who secured a seat in our upcoming session in Greenwich, CT.

We’re looking forward to a room of executives and senior leaders focused on strengthening the leadership skill that allows intelligence and credibility to be recognized instantly: presence.

03/06/2026

Damon Whiteside just stepped down as CEO of the Academy of Country Music. Now, here's a dude I can R-E-S-P-E-C-T.

On paper it looks clean. The numbers are clean. Six and a half years. Profits up 150%. Membership at an all-time high.

He even said it himself: "I've really accomplished what I wanted to accomplish here."

And he meant it.

According to his own Billboard interview, there was 100% staff turnover during his tenure. A quarter of the team restructured just last year.

To some, that's a red flag. To me? That's a leader who knew exactly what he needed, went and got it — in-house or outside — and didn't waste a single day getting there.

Grit. Street smarts. Board backing. And the professionalism to do it clean.

And now, at the absolute peak of the numbers… he's out.

That's not suspicious timing. That's a masterclass.

Most leaders wait too long. They hang on until the board gets awkward, the family gets resentful, or the numbers start telling a different story.

By then? It's not a legacy. It's a cleanup.

Damon didn't need fixing. He needed a standing ovation.

So here's the lesson: Plan your exit when everything is going great. Not when it's falling apart.

Because one is a legacy. The other is a fire drill.

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