02/15/2023
Ask yourself: Would you be friends with this person if you weren't physically attracted to them?
Be honest with yourself.
Let's be honest here. We are physically attracted to people before we have a conversation with them to see if there’s a spark or before we even give them the time of day!
Attraction comes in all shapes and forms. For example, many men and women are attracted to a person's confidence versus physical appearance.
Let's say you met a person with such confidence (super hot - luring you right in) and find yourself attracted to them. But, you soon realize that they are not as nice as you thought, they never offer to pay the bill, they’re inconsiderate to other people, they suck at driving, they’re always late, they judge strangers or they’re sarcastic when they should shut the eff-up! In that situation, would you be friends with that person and want to date them?
NO! TREAT THEM LIKE AN ACQUAINTANCE! KEEP YOUR DISTANCE!
Singles - be picky! You need to like the person before you can even think of a long-term commitment. If you are at a stage in your life and want a mature relationship, start being honest with what you deserve. Start asking yourself quality questions!
Stop making the same mistakes over and over. Stop getting sucked into a "type" of person that has not been right for you! We have all been there with our undeserving experiences!
It's all about making better choices for yourself!
It's just a date...🥰