07/20/2020
On this week‘s Last Week Tonight with John Oliver, there was a segment from a Fort Worth Texas TV news station where a teacher, saying she and her husband (also a teacher) decided to draft their wills, because they were worried about possibly contracting Covid after they return to school. The woman appeared (behind her mask) to be in her 50s.
And my first thought was, what in the hell are you doing without a will in standard times at your age?
One of the most frustrating things to me about people‘s understanding of estate planning is that it’s something you should do later in life. Absolutely NOT.
Here are situations where it’s important to have a will, plus both financial and health care powers of attorney (and I always tell anyone who will listen that powers of attorney are even more important than a will):
- If you have minor children.
- If you’re a young adult, especially if you’re not married, whether or not you have children or a significant other.
- If you’re responsible for the care of a special-needs individual.
- If you’re responsible for the care of an older relative, or anyone needing assistance.
- If you have a serious medical condition.
- If you ever drive or ride with others in a motor vehicle.
- if you have pets at home.
- If you ever walk outside of your home.
- If you never leave your home.
Get the picture?
Stuff happens. A lot of UNEXPECTED stuff happens. If you don’t have powers of attorney, who’s going to handle all of your responsibilities if you’re incapacitated?
You could have a sudden medical event, or be involved in an accident, whether a motor vehicle is involved, or you just fall, or you’re struck by something thrown, falling, or knocked over, outside or inside. You’re far more likely to be incapacitated if you’re younger than to just drop dead.
Every US state has a law that determines what happens to your stuff if you die without a will. And most states has absolutely NO default provision for how your affairs would be managed if you’re incapacitated and have no powers of attorney.
That means that if you’re incapacitated having no powers of attorney, someone will have to go to court to be appointed as your guardian (an expensive and time consuming process) to take care of your affairs (pay your bills, pay the mortgage, pay the rent, pay for your care, make decisions on your care, take responsibility for your kids, care for your pets). If you’re incapacitated and unable to communicate, you’ll have no input into choosing the person who will take over everything for you.
And though all states have intestacy (no will) laws, those laws are very likely not consistent with the plan you’d make if you had your choice into the matter. For instance, most people assume that if they’re married, and they drop dead, the spouse gets everything. In most states, not so.
Here in Pennsylvania, for instance, if you have children, and you’re married, the spouse and children split anything that you have that isn’t already in joint accounts or joint title (there are different rules as to what your spouse gets if your children are all your spouse‘s children, versus when you have children from another relationship). If you’re married and you don’t have children, but one or both of your parents are living, your spouse and your parents split what you have that isn’t jointly titled. 
If everyone in your family gets along, maybe, just MAYBE, going through the processes of what needs to be done if you don’t have these important documents will go smoothly. But why take that chance?
And perhaps most important of all if you say, “I’m good. I have a will. I have powers of attorney.” Do those whom you’ve selected to exercise your authority know where those documents are? Do they have copies? Or, because of people moving away, passing away, or your level of trust in them has changed, do you need to make any switches in the people you’ve named as your agents or personal representatives? Have you named at least one alternate (preferably two) to your selected representatives, in the event something happens to them between the time you wrote your document and the time it will be needed?
I can’t tell you how many times I get emails from the local or state bar associations that are blasted out to those of us who practice estate planning asking whether any of us has done a will for Mr. X or Ms. Y, because Mr. X or Ms. Y have passed on and, though they told their family members they had a will, no one can find it. Not telling those who need to know where your documents are or, better yet, giving them copies is like flushing whatever money you paid for a state planning down a toilet.
If you haven’t paid any attention to your documents recently, now would be an excellent time to do so. I know how easy it is to put it off; I’ve done it myself (though I updated my powers of attorney last year, I haven’t updated my will recently; I’ll do it this week, before other things make it easy to push to the back of the line again).
Your loved ones will very much appreciate if you take care of it now, before it becomes an urgent need. Thanks.