01/09/2026
I know that getting a weekly or monthly massage may not be in everyone's budget, but making yourself a priority is absolutely necessary. But it doesn't always have to cost anything.
Something as simple as taking a nap on a Tuesday, sending the kids to a play date and watching your favorite movie, wearing make-up after not having time in 2 years, calling your best friend you haven't spoken to in forever, taking 2 hours to read your favorite book, hit the gym, take a walk, go fishing, build a birdhouse, finish a sewing project you love, take yourself out to dinner, soak in a hot bath for an hour, get a massage, or pedicure or a manicure, have your hair done professionally.
Some of these have a cost and some are free. But anything that is important to YOU (not someone else's idea of self care) is absolutely essential.
Makng yourself a priority is no different than breathing air. Self care is not a luxury, it is an essential part of life. And self care looks completely different to everyone.
God loves you and so do I.