Divorce with Dignity Mediation Services

08/29/2026

When should a child make custody and parenting time decisions. If you are child of divorce, do you have a story of being forced to choose?

Mediator, Anju Jessani discusses asks the question - When Should a ...

07/15/2026

What's been your experience when potential clients ask you to review the draft MOU that they have prepared on their own. This three-minute video addresses the benefits and pitfalls of AI in divorce mediation. While I am glad clients take the time to explore solutions, these draft agreements are so problematic and end up making the mediation process more costly rather than saving the clients money. Family law professionals - laywers, mediators, CDFAs, divorce coaches and others - what are your thoughts and experiences on this issue?

New Jersey Accredited Professonal Mediator, Anju Jessani discusses ...

06/25/2026

This two minute video answers the question whether you can mediate when one or both spouses is angry? What do you think?

06/11/2026

Fellow mediators - I am sure you can relate. A potential client calls to make an appointment, and you first confirm there are no conflicts or DV issues. Then you ask if their spouse has also agreed to attend, and they say no, and the person has been ignoring or brushing them off. My under two minute video talks about my 3 X 3 approach. Let me know if you think you might use this... or what approach or response you have in this situation. https://youtu.be/zeX_IuEyPbg?si=2H2BUf4TDyvabEBA

05/14/2026

The buyout of the marital home is a topic we address in the majority of mediations. My six-minute video outlines the pros and cons of a buyout and talks about the numbers. What are some of the pros and cons that I missed in my analysis?

New Jersey Accredited Professional Mediator, Anju Jessani, discusses some of the nuances of the buyout of the marital home in divorce. This video has valuabl...

05/02/2026

Had a great time co-chairing the NJAPM annual spring seminar with Katherine Newcomer - and tech guru Marv Schuldiner, and presenting on hidden assets in plain sight, with Jeff Urbach on Fridday, May 1. We had 120 attendees online and everything worked!

04/30/2026

Took a bit of a break from videos to co-chair NJAPM - New Jersey Association of Professional Mediators spring, civil and divorce mediatoin seminar, but I am back. Today I discuss three scenarios that make for a challenging divorce mediation in under two minutes. Let me know what cases challenge you?

Mediation: Three Challenging Divorce Mediation Scenarios

03/26/2026

How to sabotage your divorce mediation, Part 2 of 3. This two-minute video addresses disappearing physical assets - cows, cash, artwork, and more... What is the strangest asset your client hid or moved in a divorce?

New Jersey Accredited Professional Mediator, Anju Jessani, continues her series on how to sabotage your divorce - talking about moving or hiding assets. Wh...