10/14/2026
Okay, how many fingers did you put down? šš
If youāre currently holding up approximately zero fingers, welcome. Youāre among friends.
Because parenting through sleep struggles can make even the most confident parent start questioning EVERYTHING.
Should bedtime be earlier?
Are they overtired?
Do they need another nap?
Am I creating a bad habit?
Why did this work LAST WEEK?!
Hereās your reminder:
Your childās sleep changing doesnāt mean youāve done something wrong.
Babies, toddlers, and preschoolers are constantly developing. Their sleep needs change. Their connection needs change. Their routines change.
And sometimes what worked beautifully before doesnāt work for the child in front of you today.
Instead of immediately searching for the next sleep trick, try getting curious:
š Whatās changed recently?
š What is my childās behavior communicating?
š Are their current sleep needs different?
š Is connection, regulation, feeding or environment playing a role?
š What does our family need right now?
You donāt need to have every answer.
And you definitely donāt need to parent according to someone elseās perfect sleep schedule on Instagram. I have 5 places to start so you donāt have to leave your child to cry it out in my free guide.
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