10/13/2026
A decision is final. Your team’s frustration isn’t.
Some of the hardest leadership work occurs after a decision has already been made, especially when people disagree with it or feel they weren’t heard.
The questions keep coming:
Why did this happen?
Why weren’t we involved?
Those questions may be fair. But at some point, a decision you cannot change starts taking energy from what you CAN influence.
I have used a simple exercise with leadership teams:
What can we control?
What can we influence?
The decision may be made. What happens next isn’t.
You can decide how you respond. You can decide what needs to be said. You can decide how you continue to lead.
You don’t have to agree to continue giving it your full energy.
Where could your team’s energy make the greatest difference right now?