10/10/2026
When most think of “self defense encounter” they don’t picture this. This is too messy and intimate of a self defense shooting scenario. Well, it is.
The reality is that at any time you introduce a tool into a situation, the propensity of “your” tool vs. “our” tool shifts in the favor of the latter. I didn’t start this entanglement with the gun, but I made sure I got to it. At the least, I made sure neither of us could have it.
How do you avoid this or give yourself the best chance at avoiding it? Confidence in your ability. Confidence in knowing you can access and manipulate that tool to the highest degree builds restraint in it being a panic button. Don’t even get me started on the cowardice of, “I don’t need to know how to don’t, I carry a gun.” That’s trash.
The reality is anyone claiming to teach “self defense” style shooting is just teaching you a lesser version of performance shooting. They’re not that good, there for try and convince you that “good enough” is a thing. It’s not. They believe their prior life or current life resume speaks for itself and you should just trust their input. NO. Make them show you that they are relevant in today’s competitive market.
The way to avoid this is invest in quality out of the gate. Quality instruction. Don’t get fooled by prior military or law enforcement experience, it means nothing. Don’t fall for hot button words like “tactical” or “self defense”, it also means nothing. You would want an electrician to handle an electrical problem. You will also want performance based instructors to fix your shooting problem.
Don’t believe me? See if your local self defense shooting instructor has been to a match of their peers recently. Stay safe and stay trained.