ModernDay.NET Enterprise

06/08/2025

"Be like water" — not flashy or luxurious, but essential, adaptable, and profoundly valuable in creating lasting impact. Like water, which flows around obstacles, adjusts to its surroundings, and sustains life, my approach to project management, leadership, and entrepreneurship is grounded in flexibility, resilience, and a commitment to delivering reliable, impactful results.

Focusing on providing clear, proven strategies that eliminate overwhelm, foster collaboration, and propel growth—much like water's ability to nourish and sustain. This mindset emphasizes adaptability in changing environments, continuous improvement, and the importance of building trust and peace of mind for clients and teams alike. Ultimately, I aim to be a steady, valuable force—supporting growth and success with unwavering integrity and purpose, much like water that sustains life without unnecessary excess.

06/27/2024

06/21/2023

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10/03/2017

We often see success stories about people who have achieved something BIG. They inspire us and on some level show us that it is possible to achieve our goals. However, they rarely help us deal with what goes on in the middle, the point in between starting something new, when we’re full of energy and excitement, and actually succeeding.

That middle part is sometimes not pretty. How do you tackle the middle??

Let’s say you’ve taken that first step toward a big dream of yours. You’re so enthusiastic and you smile when you think about the future.

Then suddenly a question or two pops up in your head, stopping you dead in your tracks. Freezing you, sucking away all that enthusiasm and energy you started with.

“Am I good enough?”
“Can I really make this work?”
“Am I too old for this?”
“Do I have enough experience?”
“Do I know what I’m letting myself in for here?”
“What if I fail?”
“Am I making a fool of myself?”
and when setbacks occur
"What am I doing wrong?"

Sound familiar?

If you are doing something that takes you out of your comfort zone, chances are you have heard a version of these questions in your head.

These questions are nothing but our mind’s strategy to keep us stuck where we are, to stop us from taking risks, to help us avoid danger.

The problem is that when we’re busy dwelling on these questions, we’re wasting our mind’s energy. We’re not engaging it to think creatively, or to spot opportunities or to help us overcome the challenges we face along the way.

We’re focusing South when we really want to go North. So what do we do about it?

1. The most important thing is to be aware of these questions when they come up.

Chances are you won’t start by hearing the question but instead you will feel a sudden sinking sensation, a loss of hope or of energy. You might start thinking that the whole idea is stupid or silly or not worth the effort. In short, your state will change. With practice you can become aware of when that changing state happens.

2. Once you become aware of this change, take a moment to explore what you were thinking.

This is when you are likely to discover that you were making a statement or asking a question that is taking your focus south, instead of north.

3. Ask yourself: “Is this question or statement helping me move forward?”

4. If the answer is no, follow up with “What question can I replace it with that will help me move forward?”

Here’s an example of how this strategy has helped me in my life.

When I began as an entrepreneur, I fell into the same "thinking" trap.

With time I realized that the questions I was asking myself were taking me South. Questions like “Am I good enough?” “Who wants to listen to me?” “What if I fail?"

They were just unhelpful and didn't serve me well. I worked hard to become more aware of them, and I changed them.

I started asking myself POWERFUL questions, such as these.

"What do I need to do to become better?"
"How can I grow today?"
"What can I learn today?"
"What is possible?"
"How does it get any better than this?"
"What am I grateful for?"
"What are the infinite possibilities?"
"What glorious adventure does God have in store for me today?"
"What will it take for this to turn our far great than I could imagine?"

As my questions changed, my feelings changed, as did my performance. The major reason was that now I was focusing north, which was where I wanted to go.

Words Work!! Choose Wisely, for they shift the course of your life!

09/21/2017

"Everyone has inside of him a piece of good news. The good news is that you don’t know how great you can be! How much you can love! What you can accomplish! And what your potential is!” —Anne Frank"

08/11/2016

"No thought lives in your head rent-free. Each thought you have will either be an investment or a cost. It will either move you toward happiness and success or away from it. It will either empower you or disempower you. That's why it is imperative you choose your thoughts and beliefs wisely." ~ T. Harv Eker