09/25/2026
🪦 Fabulous Funeral Friday: Bury “Not Enough” — Give Like Dolly 💗📚 Heather Hitchler
Today is Dolly Day, and I cannot bring myself to bury anything about Dolly Parton.
Not her memory. Not her mission. Not the way she loved Appalachia. Not the way she invested in children, literacy, families, and communities. Those are exactly the things we need to keep alive.
So today, I want to bury something Dolly spent a lifetime proving wrong:
The belief that you do not have enough to make a difference.
🪦 Bury I don’t have enough money.
Bury I don’t have enough time.
Bury I’m too busy with my career.
Bury I’m not important enough.
Bury Someone else can probably do more than I can.
Because community service was never supposed to be reserved for wealthy philanthropists with foundations and giant checks.
Sometimes it is money.
Sometimes it is an hour.
Sometimes it is mentoring a kid, sharing what you know, delivering a meal, reading a book, helping a neighbor, volunteering at an event, making an introduction, showing up for a nonprofit, or simply noticing that somebody needs help and deciding not to walk past them.
💗 Dolly certainly demonstrated what extraordinary philanthropy can accomplish. But I think the larger lesson is simpler:
Use what you have. Where you are. For somebody besides yourself.
That matters to me because I hear people say all the time that they will give back when they have more time, when the business settles down, when they make more money, when life gets easier.
The problem is that when can become a very long time.
🌱 Communities are not built by people waiting until they have enough.
They are built by ordinary people deciding that what they have today is enough to begin.
Maybe you cannot fund the whole program. Help one person.
Maybe you cannot volunteer every week. Give one afternoon.
Maybe you cannot solve the whole problem. Bring one skill, one connection, one idea, one pair of hands.
That is how ecosystems grow.
And today feels especially appropriate because the Dollywood Foundation has designated September 25 as Give Like Dolly Day, carrying her commitment to children and literacy forward.
🔥 That is how you honor a legacy.
You do not just remember what someone did.
You continue the behavior that made their life matter.
So on this Fabulous Funeral Friday, I am burying NOT ENOUGH.
Not enough time.
Not enough money.
Not enough influence.
Not enough ability to matter.
Rest in peace.
🦄 In its place, plant something much more useful:
I have something I can give.
Find it.
Give it.
Then watch what happens when an entire community decides to do the same.
💗 We do not honor Dolly by burying her work. We honor her by picking it up and carrying it forward.