01/21/2016
Should I carry gun to protect myself?
This is probably the most common question I'm asked.
Remember, this is my opinion. I have 35 years of experience, and have been on both sides of these weapons. Today, I carry a firearm for a living, but for the majority of my career I faced fi****ms, and in truth, all weapons, without ever carrying a weapon of any type. On occasion, I'm still called on to do that today.
Those of us who have faced critical situations have learned, you have two choices. 1) Fight. 2) Flee. I think it goes without saying that flee is always the best option. But what about when you can’t? I have found myself in this position, and when the lives of others are at stake, you have to fight. At this point, you're probably wondering what this has to do with whether I should carry a gun. It's simple. The gun is not going to make you a hero. A gun is simply a tool. Like any other tool, with the proper training it can be an asset but unfortunately, people think with a couple quick classes and a permit they can fulfill the fantasies of their late-night police dramas.
What happens when you have a gun on your side, and this can happen even to law enforcement, is you forget your training. Things accelerate too fast, the adrenaline kicks in, you panic, and out comes the gun. It's the quick answer but it's the one you can't take back. If you’re scared and make a mistake, there's no do-over. No I’m sorry. You have to consider that your gun isn’t a tool used to threaten and intimidate, it is designed to take someone's life.
So, my advice?
Yes. A gun could absolutely save your life, or the life of a loved one.
But with that, there are rules you should follow.
1) The minute you purchase a gun, secure it. Whether you live alone or have children, this should be a habit that you form immediately. If you can afford to buy a firearm, you can afford to buy a way to safely secure it, and it must be a priority. If it's not in your hand or on your body, it is locked in a safe.
2) Learn the law. You better know when it's legal to pull that thing out. You better know when it's legal to shoot. A store clerk asked me the other day, “If I carry my gun in the store, and somebody tries to steal something, can I shoot them?" The answer is a resounding NO. If somebody stole a snickers bar, would you jump over the counter and beat them to death? God, I hope not. This is when we have to ask ourselves if the gun is separating ourselves from our humanity, and turning into a television fantasy.
3) Before you carry, train on your firearm until you become proficient. And continue to practice on a regular basis to stay proficient. If you haven't been shooting in a while stop and get back to school. Law enforcement, military, as well as security officers are continually required to do monthly and quarterly training to maintain their skills.
4) Most importantly, just because you have a firearm on you, it has to be your last option. You need to train like it's your last option. This is where even police and other firearm using professionals have gone wrong of late. Like Batman, you need to prepare yourself with other proficiencies on your mental and physical tool belt. Consider other disciplines, research more peaceful conflict resolution, and study self defense, so if something happens, you don’t overreact and are able to match the problem with the proper response. I suggest carrying something less than lethal in addition to your firearm. Most situations you come across won’t require lethal force to protect yourself or a loved one, and don’t meet the criteria legally or morally for you to take someone’s life.
Work on your street-smart skills. Learn how not to be a victim, and how not to put yourself in a position to need your firearm.