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Looking for an immediately actionable way to create psychological safety? Try listening.We’re not just talking about “I ...
05/25/2026

Looking for an immediately actionable way to create psychological safety? Try listening.

We’re not just talking about “I heard what you said” listening. We’re talking about the kind of listening in which the other person feels truly heard.

This involves the basics, like not interrupting, using good eye contact and other attentive body language, paraphrasing (“I hear you saying…”) – but also a couple truly impactful and even more powerful listening techniques:

1. Empathetic reflection
2. Follow up questions

Bottom line – people want to feel “seen.” When someone, especially someone in a position of authority, spends the time and energy to really listen in a way that demonstrates caring, the power differential becomes less of a roadblock to approachability and trust.

Can you think of a time when you felt truly heard? How did the other person show up that made you feel that way?

05/21/2026

We all know how much managers matter. Gallup says they drive 70% of employee engagement. Research by Gallup also shows that, compared to engaged teams, disengaged teams have higher turnover, lower profitability, lower productivity, and more safety incidents, absenteeism, shrinkage, and unhappy customers.

When management isn’t working, the ripple effects show up everywhere: disengaged employees, high turnover, broken trust, culture issues, poor communication, and a whole lot of organizational drag.

And yet... time and again, organizations underinvest in management development. Or worse, they double down on approaches that don’t work. Why?

Here are four reasons we see all the time:

𝟏. 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐏𝐞𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐏𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐜𝐢𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐋𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐬 𝐎𝐧
We see it constantly. You’re a great accountant, nurse, surveyor — so you get promoted to manage the accountants, nurses, or surveyors. It’s a common (but false) intuition: that being great at a specific job means you’ll also be great at managing people who do that job. But management is a different skillset entirely. It’s a job no one really trains you for.

𝟐. 𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞’𝐬 𝐍𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐚 “𝐑𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐓𝐢𝐦𝐞”
Management development gets pushed aside again and again in favor of other, more pressing work. Meanwhile, the slow-burn problems are quietly stacking up — until they become urgent. Disengagement. Complaints. Resentment. People leaving. By then, it’s already costing you.

𝟑. 𝐖𝐞 𝐏𝐫𝐢𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐳𝐞 𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭’𝐬 𝐌𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐮𝐫𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐞
It’s hard to quantify things like morale, engagement, or culture. So we default to focusing on the stuff with clean data. It feels safer. But just because something’s harder to measure doesn’t make it less important. And yes — the ROI of management development can be measured. It just takes time, creativity, and a willingness to see the whole picture.

𝟒. 𝐌𝐨𝐬𝐭 𝐓𝐫𝐚𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬 𝐃𝐨𝐧’𝐭 𝐒𝐭𝐢𝐜𝐤
You’ve probably experienced this: a leadership program filled with inspiring lessons, big ideas, and “wouldn’t it be nice” conversations. People leave energized. Then a few months later? No one’s talking about it. Nothing’s changed. It’s flavor of the year. And it leaves a bad taste in people’s mouths. Real development means giving managers practical tools — approaches they can break down, practice, and use day-to-day. And it means setting up sustainable systems for long-term reinforcement.

At Nash Consulting, this is the work we care most about: equipping managers with the real-world skills, habits, and support they need to lead well —consistently, sustainably, and with actual impact.

What would you add? Why do you think organizations keep underinvesting in management skills, even when the costs are so high?

05/19/2026

Looking for proven Leadership Development training and tools? The Managing with Mind and Heart workshop series combines emotional intelligence with practical, actionable, research-based, best-practice management skills and built-in sustainability practices for long-lasting culture change that's sticky. Reach out today. ✨

www.nashconsulting.com

05/18/2026

Let’s revisit a manager’s best friend: systems thinking.

We love this dear friend because it helps us solve the real problem—not just the symptoms.

In our Managing with Mind & Heart leadership series, we train managers in a systems-thinking tool called the Waterline Model. Systems thinking and the Waterline Model remind us that it’s a lot easier to fix structures than to fix people. It’s far more effective (and sustainable) to make thoughtful changes to roles, policies, workflows, and expectations than to try to change someone’s personality or motivation.

It also reminds us that what looks like a “people issue” is often a clarity issue—unclear roles, fuzzy expectations, vague decision-making authority, or broken (or non-existent) processes.

When we fix those things—when we clarify the system—people tend to show up better.

Systems thinking is a manager’s superpower.

The Art of the By-When (A Essential Management Tool)A by-when is exactly what it sounds like: a clear deadline attached ...
05/14/2026

The Art of the By-When (A Essential Management Tool)

A by-when is exactly what it sounds like: a clear deadline attached to a task or request. It’s communicating by when you need something, or asking by when someone needs something. It’s not a new idea, but it’s one of the simplest, most powerful tools for improving follow-through, prioritization, and trust.

Some of our clients have seen such strong results from this practice that they’ve embedded it into their culture—posting signs around the office, adding reminders to their email signatures, even wearing pins that say, “Ask me for a by-when.” Cute, right?

Here’s the idea in plain terms:

If something needs to get done, there should be a clear by when. And if there isn’t, someone should ask for one.

With Consistent By-Whens:
People know how to prioritize
Expectations are visible and shared
Trust grows through consistent follow-through

Akpene Torku Sims is a Strategic Developer who loves to reach into the chaos and confusion of business and life to creat...
05/12/2026

Akpene Torku Sims is a Strategic Developer who loves to reach into the chaos and confusion of business and life to create something beautiful and powerful. Her mission has always been about seeing the potential in people and helping them be who they already are. As a Coach and Consultant, Akpene inspires people to unleash themselves and their businesses through assessment, encouragement, and equipping, which in turn allows them step into successful leaders, deliver quality services or products, and leave an incredible mark in their spheres of influence.

05/12/2026

"As a manager, you don't act from the knowledge you have, you act from the state you're in."

Tune in to the latest Managing with Mind and Heart Podcast (that slightly irreverent show that helps leaders promote healthy workplace cultures) to hear Ted-X speaker and strategist Jinesha Jain and our own Ethan Nash discuss how high performers can break free from mental overdrive and lead with more intention and compassion.



https://open.spotify.com/episode/3zWjAERqnZIzCmpPxmJU3I?si=dfa466d40e7c403b

05/11/2026

🧠If you’re a human with a human brain, critical feedback tends to trigger defensiveness, at least initially. Tough feedback about us activates the amygdala, which kicks off our fight-or-flight instinct.

In other words, our brains immediately code hard feedback about who we are as a safety threat, and we move into self-protection mode, And BAM! We feel defensive.
Bottom line: feeling defensive is normal. Good news: if you feel defensive when receiving tough feedback, nothing is wrong with you. It’s the product of millions of years of evolution.

Here are a few simple steps to focus on when I’m receiving hard feedback to help me show up non-defensively, no matter how defensive I may feel…
So someone starts giving you hard feedback. You can feel your amygdala waking up like Smaug in The Hobbit (metaphorically speaking, of course). And you remember this LinkedIn post. So you…
Step 1: Listen.
Open body language. Nod. And the literal shutting of your mouth.
This is where defensiveness often shows up first - interrupting, explaining, or looking closed off before the other person has had a chance to be heard.
Step 2: Thank them.
It doesn’t need to be an Emmy-style acceptance speech. Just a simple acknowledgment and reward for having the courage to give you feedback.
(By the way, you can do all of this while still feeling very defensive. That’s an adult social skill called self-control.)
Step 3: Ask questions.
They’ve finished talking. Now ask a few questions designed to communicate: “I’m curious.” “I want to understand.” “I want to learn more.”
No accusatory questions (“When did I ever do that?!”). Think questions like: “I want to wrap my head around this - would you mind giving me an example or two?”
Step 4: The “I get it” statement.
After exercising some curiosity (whether real or manufactured - it honestly doesn’t matter), say some version of: “I understand where you’re coming from.”
This is not the same thing as agreeing. It’s simply showing that you heard them.

You might even paraphrase their concern, restating their feedback as well as, or better than, how they gave it to you.

When you’ve accomplished Steps 1–4, there’s a good chance the person now feels safe in that moment. You’ve already rewarded them for approaching you with feedback.

And now, whether you ultimately agree or disagree with the feedback, the result is likely the same: You’ve reinforced that it’s safe, good, and appreciated to speak up.

So here’s the punchline:
We can feel defensive (which is largely outside our control) and still show up non-defensively (which is largely within our control).

The BIRCH model for giving feedback is an immediately actionable tool our clients love.The next time you're about to giv...
05/07/2026

The BIRCH model for giving feedback is an immediately actionable tool our clients love.

The next time you're about to give feedback to someone, take a minute or two to prepare using the BIRCH framework. Let us know how it goes!

Amatuer sailor, Tom is motivated by the possibility that the workplace – where we spend a significant portion of our wak...
05/05/2026

Amatuer sailor, Tom is motivated by the possibility that the workplace – where we spend a significant portion of our waking hours – can be a life-giving environment. He is focused on creating cultures that embrace deep listening, relational attentiveness, and the fundamentals of respectful, skilled leadership. The results are highly aligned organizations capable of achieving shared goals. ✨

05/04/2026

Many managers struggle to build trust with employees. And the cost isn't just a loss of engagement, but also the confidence to lead well can tank. One simple way to turn this around is by practicing active listening. 👂 It's a simple concept, but only about a third of the population is naturally good at listening. That means for the rest of us, it's a skill to develop.

Show your team you care by giving them your full attention, asking thoughtful questions, and genuinely reflecting on what they share. Active listening creates connection and respect—and when people feel respected, they’re far more likely to bring their best selves to the work.

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