06/26/2026
A stressed team member does not always need you to take the work off their plate.
Sometimes they need you to help them think through what is creating the stress.
That is a different kind of leadership.
It is easy to swoop in.
It is easy to fix it.
It is easy to carry it for them.
But when leaders keep taking the issue away, the team may never build the judgment, ownership, or confidence to handle it differently next time.
Guide first.
Ask what is creating the pressure.
Ask what they have already tried.
Ask what decision they think needs to be made.
Ask what support would help them move forward.
This does not mean leaders never step in.
It means when we drift into rescue, we catch it, recover it, and guide people back toward ownership.
That is how leaders build capacity instead of dependence.