Linda Xochitl Avalos, Empowering Women

06/05/2025

No one likes to feel belittled during a conversation.

Condescending communication can happen anywhere ~ in the workplace, among friends, even within ourselves.

Recognizing this style is key to shifting how we get back to communicating effectively with others.

Are you using it unknowingly, or have you felt small after leaving a conversation lately...ever?

Let’s discuss effective communication and share our experiences.

Double tap if you relate!

06/04/2025

Have you ever found yourself expecting others to just "understand you" without saying a word? That's what's called Not Effective Communication. Specifically the "Mind Reader" style.

It's like assuming others can read your thoughts and feelings which often leads to misunderstandings.
Sure your friends might be on your wavelength most of the time, but your partners, family members, and strangers... Nope!

Whether in business or personal relationships, it's crucial to express expectations clearly.

How often do you rely on others to just 'know' what you want?
And do you know how to get back to effective communication?
Share your experiences in the comments below 👇🏼. Let's break down these barriers together!

05/06/2024

🤷🏽‍♀️ What's Your Birth Order?

Even though I was raised as an only child, for some years, I'm still the oldest and I tend to feel like a mama bear with my siblings... despite me being the smallest one, 🫶🏼

Alfred Alder was the researcher that first came up with the Birth Order Theory.

Key birth order traits of FIRSTBORN children:

🔑 Go-getter 🔑 Responsible 🔑 Role model 🔑 Determined 🔑 Hard worker
🔑 Bossy

Key birth order traits of MIDDLE children:

🧲 Adaptable 🧲 Social butterfly 🧲 Dreamer 🧲 Generous 🧲 Creative 🧲 Rebellious
🧲 Competitive 🧲 Funny 🧲 Great negotiator

Key birth order traits of YOUNGEST children:

🏎 Risk-taker 🏎 Outgoing 🏎 Dependent 🏎 Persistent 🏎 Fun-loving 🏎 Charming
🏎 Easy-going 🏎 Free-spirited 🏎 Spoiled

Key birth order traits of ONLY children:

☄️ Mature ☄️ Loyal ☄️ Independent ☄️ Confident ☄️ Leader ☄️ Cautious ☄️ Curious
☄️ Sensitive

04/29/2024

What's One of your happiest Childhood Moments?

Mine is swimming! Any chance I could get into the whirlpool bath, I remember feeling that inspiring movement take over my body. 🧜‍♀️

I didn't realize how much I love to be by the water, until my late 20s.
I have now lived by the beach for over a decade!
Jumping Into the water, trusting and ready for the water to catch me.

03/20/2024

Relationship or Business, ? Which Comes 1st?

View this email in your browser, Do You Value... Your Relationship more than your Business? ORYour Business more than your Relationship? Is one right…

02/14/2024

Sending You a Valentine's Day Hug!

Wrapping myself in love because it's no one else's job to do it for me!

Have no expectations today as that can get you in trouble!

Love is unconditional, that means the good, bad and the ugly.

At the end of your life, Love is all that matters!

Make today count!
LXA 🌸💖🔥

11/17/2023

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11/15/2023

🤷🏻‍♀️ Many people ask me what do I do?
Like what is a Life Coach?
What does that mean?

🚧Similar to therapy in that those Trauma Drama moments come up, your wounds, the anxiety, and discomfort is already present.

🚫Not Talk Therapy!

🙋🏻‍♀️Then I ask you questions.

🧠These aren't just any questions, they are Quality Questions that you've probably never been asked before.

⚡ You have realizations, Breakthroughs, and insights. You will have new ideas to make more money, stay in your relationship, leave relationships that don't serve you, have more effective communication, you will be more efficient, you will feel more On purpose, your heart will open up and you will feel more love for yourself first, and others, as they are a reflection of you.

🤫 Your brain noise quiets down, you sleep better, anger dissipates and you give yourself the gift of more life inspired. No more living in the 'should' world.

👋If you've done some work in yourself /Personal Development, Comment 💯!

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11/15/2023

😂 One of my sisters sent this to me. I wonder why?! 🤣

Can you relate?
Whether you're the oldest, or the youngest...

If I was triggered I would've felt defensive and tried to prove this statement is false.

In actuality, this is true!

But not ALL the time!
There are definitely times I want to play boss, but I control everything and everyone, and there are definitely times when I do not want anything to do with responsibility...

Share this or tag your sister! 💯

11/10/2023

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11/08/2023

11/06/2023

💪🏻 Stay Focused Today!
🛑 Say No to distractions.

No one else is paying your bills Unless you got a sugar daddy/Mama! 😂