03/10/2026
The beauty of motherhood đ¤â¨
The past five years of being a mother was not what I expected but also, better than I expected.
Before I had Ellie, I knew I wanted to be a mother. I prayed for her, I prepared my body for her, and God blessed with the most beautiful girl. Eliana stands for âGodâs answered prayerâ and that is exact what I was given with my baby girl.
But if Iâm being honest, the one thing I didnât prepare was for partnership, when I met her father, I knew I wanted to have his child but wasnât sure if I wanted to be a wife⌠and I donât think I was ready to be a wife. I made some decisions out of emotion instead of logic, which led to a marriage and a divorce within a year.
When Ellie turned 3, I decided to be a co-parent and it was one of the hardest but best decisions Iâve made for both Ellie and I.
In my culture, being a single mother is something that is looked down upon. Very little family members in my village are divorced. So this was uncharted territory for me. But I just want to say this, I am not without.
Ellie has a dad who loves her. I have parents who support me and help raise her. I have a village full of love around us. Our home is full of love and joy.
Fast forward to last week, coincidentally, the day after my divorce was finalized was the day Ellie and I had our photo session with Haley. It felt like closing one chapter and stepping into another. Doing this photoshoot showed me how a home isnât just a mom and dad. Itâs what you make of it. Itâs the joy, the laughter, the love, the consistency of showing up⌠and I am bursting with all of that. My cup has never been more full đĽšđ¤ and I just want to say how thankful I am to .photography for capturing this moment in time for me đ¤
Iâm grateful for the people who have supported me through this season, and for the grace God has given me along the way.
If youâre in a hard chapter right now, this is your reminder that joy can still be on the other side. â¨