09/15/2024
Waiting until everything is just right or 'feels right' doesn't work very well for me...
I can be way too anxious for that 🤦🏻♀️
Even if I get EXACTLY what I wanted, if I sit with it long enough I can find a reason why it isn't right
Even the things that I have worked for and celebrated, I was so nervous when I...
🎓started at a new college
💼accepted a promotion
👩🏻💻started working online
✈️booked solo (international) travel
🏡moved to new state or city
Even the smallest things can make me think "wait maybe I was wrong maybe this isn't for me??" Or...
"Maybe I don't deserve it"
"Maybe I don't have enough time"
"Maybe I'm not brave enough"
And so on....
For me, it's about finding the balance between listening to my gut and being will to say "F it, what's the worst that can happen!?" and just GOING FOR IT
Most of the time, the worst that can happen is that I could end up right back where I was or I get an interesting story out of it 🤷🏻♀️
A huge growth moment for me was realizing that I had to not allow my anxieties to hold me back from great opportunities or from things I REALLY wanted to do. Allowing myself to learn and make mistakes along the way rather than waiting until I felt perfectly ready has opened the door for a lot of fun stuff
Giving myself permission to feel a little silly or make mistakes is usually when the best parts of life end up happening unexpectedly anyways
So, stop waiting until you feel like it is the 'right time' because honestly, it probably never will be. There will always be something else that can hold you back, because that's life.
Pics from a group hike in Griffith Park that I really enjoyed, but thought about not going to because I didn't know anyone else there before going and got nervous 😂
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