Bridge to Bliss with Summer Howard

09/09/2024

ELC Photography you are so dang good at what you do...I can't choose just one! HAAALP! 😆💕

with Erin Cox


Photo collage: property of ELC Photography

07/16/2024

Another (beautiful) day at the office in Lafayette✨

Now taking client couples for divorce mediation and individuals for divorce strategy.

BoulderDivorceMediation.com

07/03/2024

The last 11 years I’ve worked with families going through divorce
❓ From the “should I stay/go” phase (as a Certified Divorce Coach)
👦🏽To helping with parenting plans in high conflict cases (as a Child and Family Investigator)
💵 To facilitating the process of final financial and parenting agreements to be approved by the courts (as a Divorce Mediator)

🏡 After working with hundreds of families going through divorce.....I can’t ignore the patterns that I have seen time and time again.....the pain, agony, and PROBLEMS caused by not understanding the basics of divorce EARLIER!

🔍 And it’s not because they didn’t google the solution a million times...
…it’s because they didn’t have a 🦮 guide through this beginning stage.

*There are 3️⃣ major mistakes* people at the beginning of the divorce process make:

❌ The first mistake is…choosing the wrong "way" to divorce.
Yep, there are different ways to get divorced: you can hire a lawyer, a mediator, do it yourself - or use a mix of them all!

BUT if you don’t know your options and you are blind to the issues in your unique situation... ..🪤 it’s easy to fall into this trap. And it's no small mis-step.

☠️ The most dangerous ways I have seen this play out are in the comments below.

See more in this little video I made for you: https://www.boulderdivorcemediation.com/divorcefundamentals

Are You Overwhelmed by Divorce? Let's Simplify the Process Together!With my expert guidance, you’ll feel more confident about the logistics and emotionally prepared to tackle whatever comes your way. YES! I NEED THIS. Welcome to the Divorce FundamentalsGet fully prepared for your divorce so you (a...

05/25/2024

If you are anxious about summertime because you are separated/divorcing...I got you.

Expert effective strategies for navigating summer during separation or divorce. Learn how to create a solid schedule, develop a comprehensive separation plan, and explore your divorce options to ensure stability and harmony for your family during the summer months."

02/21/2024

Weekend plans changed. Still loving Valentines week into the weekd weekend. Everyone caught up on sleep this weekend ❤️ while I write the last days of my Divorce in 30 Days program 🥳
[🪜My 6 steps to a parenting plan that works for your family]
🙏I will emerge soon and am so grateful for the beta group and my mediation families.

01/15/2024

Separated or divorcing? Starting this Friday, I’m kicking off a course that’s not just about surviving your divorce but getting through the beginning with confidence and clarity. 💪

It’s designed to prepare you for success, minimize conflict, and prioritize your family’s wellbeing… all while getting the paperwork work DONE!

In this hands-on program, I’ve got your back with:
📆 Daily actions
🎥 Videos
✅ Checklists
📝 Worksheets
🤝 Accountability

PLUS, I’ve get a chance for deep-dives and personal feedback:
🚀 LIVE workshops
🕰 Weekly office hours

All of this comes with a 100% investment guarantee. Yep, you read that right! Check it out and see if it’s what you need right now. Let’s tackle this journey together. 💙

Feel free to drop any questions below or shoot me a message.

Looking forward to having some incredible individuals join this journey!

https://www.boulderdivorcemediation.com/divorce-in-30-days/

06/02/2018

The best way out is always through. - Robert Frost

"The best way out is always through."
This quote by Robert Frost, although seemingly inspiring, is really quite scary...

In one sentence he acknowledges the fact that we want to "get out" of something...

And then he has the gumption to tell me to walk through the very thing I want to run away from. WHAT?

If you are like me, the thought of "get out" is twinned with the urge to "run away!".

And although walking through the flames of what you want to leave is a tactic that will leave you wiser, more fit for the next situation and maybe even purified, it's scary as hell. Fear is what keeps you in your situation.

Would you walk through the flames of the situation that you want out of? The stale marriage? The abusive spouse?

How will you possibly change your life to not repeat the same mistakes in another relationship, even if you do run away?

A: By walking through it...not running from it.

I am here to take your hand as you walk through the pain, walk through the aha! moments, walk through to the joy and peace on the other side of this situation.

This is for you if you want group support as you walk through it. www.womenontheedge.us

And if you want 100% individual attention as you walk through it, then go here. http://bit.ly/ClaritySeshWithSummer

Whatever you do today...love yourself enough to not run from your situation anymore.

01/12/2018

Do you have a friend that's **really struggling** in their marriage? Send them here:

Unlock the secret framework to make a clear decision about the future of your marriage. Leave confusion behind and join me for this free webinar.

09/30/2016

06/12/2016

Divorcing a narcissist? Read this.

A psychologist and an attorney offer expert advice.