07/26/2026
My aunt spanked me with an extension cord and rammed my head into a dresser, when her son got caught sexually abusing me.
It started when I was 5 years old. I was groomed and sexually violated by an older cousin, who was a teenager. He put his private in my mouth and I kept begging him to stop. It was disgusting and I was sick!!! When my mom picked me up, I told her and she said nothing. As a matter of fact, she took me back to that house the very next day. I learned that I couldn't trust her at an early age. How terrifying for a child 😥 That same age, I was repeatedly molest3d by an older female cousin, and this continued for years until I was a teenager. At 7, I was molest3d by another family member who told me if I said anything he wouldn't feed me, and I believed him because I was young and scared. This already happened to me twice, so I complied. One day, my cousin got busted while he was abusing me and his own sister called the cops, and he was taken to jail. I was blamed by my aunt. She spanked me with an extension cord and rammed my head into a dresser, because she was upset he was going to juvenile prison. She wanted this to be swept under the rug. I was taken, and then spent a year in foster care. My mother was in the penitentiary while I was growing up, and when she got out, she fought 2 get me back.
My grandma tried to convince my mom to leave me in foster care. See, I was a stain on the family image and my grandma wanted that false image protected at all costs! At that moment, I knew something was truly wrong with the environments I was exposed to. I knew I couldn't tell anyone, because everyone was complicit, whether they were the abuser or the enabler. I am also an in**st survivor. I still have nightmares and flashbacks of the same female who violated me, having s3x with our two male cousins that had violated me. There is a long history of sexual abuse and in**stuous behavior, that no one wants to address!!! This pain changed me, it made me different. But it also made me determined to expose this unhealthy behavior, so it can stop happening!!! Today, I'm a self-taught artist who heals thru art, and creates to encourage others to ! Break the pattern and be brave!!! Today, I am no contact with the majority of my family. I did the hard thing, and cut off almost my entire support system because it wasn't healthy. What good is a support system, if it is unhealthy? I can confidently say, that none of my children experienced this type of trauma. I broke that generational curse, and you can too!
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Child abusers, please stop and seek therapy and God.
Parents, talk with and believe your children. ❤️
Survivors, seek therapy. 💪🏽
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