08/23/2026
The commitment is almost never the expensive part. Relitigating it is.
Anything you have decided but keep reopening runs a background process. Should I still be doing the daily calls. Is this the right offer. Should I go back to the way I was doing it in the spring. Thinking arrives at an answer. This just reopens on a schedule.
What it costs is specific. It is the same attention you need to be sharp in a conversation, and you are spending it in the car on a decision you already made in June.
Willpower does not close it, and certainty is not coming, so stop waiting on either one.
Put a deadline on the decision itself.
Say it the way you would say it to a partner. I am running this exact structure through the end of September and I am not reopening it before then. If it is wrong, it will be wrong in a way I can see by the thirtieth, and then I change it once, with evidence, instead of eleven times, with moods.
That deadline buys you a closed question, and a closed question stops charging you rent.
Pick the one you keep reopening. Give it a date. Between now and that date the only acceptable answer to yourself is that we already decided.