01/26/2026
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We often hide behind the excuse of "that’s just who I am."
We treat our behavioral flaws as if they are permanent traits, like our height or eye color.
We convince ourselves that we are simply "wired" to be impatient, or that we are "too intense" to be empathetic.
You do not have an incurable genetic disease that prevents you from being a good listener.
You do not have a medical condition that forces you to interrupt people, look at your phone during meetings, or need to be right all the time.
These are behaviors. And behaviors are choices.
Great leadership is about taking responsibility for those choices.
It is realizing that your personality is not a fixed destiny.
As Emerson reminds us, the only limits on who you become are the decisions you make today.
The next time you catch yourself making an excuse for a bad habit, stop. Ask yourself: "Am I actually unable to change, or am I just unwilling to put in the effort?"
Life is good.
Marshall