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02/23/2017

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02/23/2017

. Dates as simple as a picnic in the park, visiting an amusement park, enjoying a wine tasting or a museum visit are all wonderful choices for making a memorable evening.

08/03/2015

How to spot a Gold Digger

A gold digger is someone who will latch on to a person who can provide gifts, expensive vacations, dinners at fancy restaurants, etc. In exchange, they will often pretend to be interested in you. When I say “pretend” I mean they will shower you with compliments, call and text you every day and even tell you they love you.

Most gold diggers have an attitude that they have to be taken care of by you. And by “taken care of” I mean taking care of their rent, phone and credit card bills, etc.

Not all gold diggers are after money. Some gold diggers are in search of favors or fame. Contrary to popular belief, gold diggers can be both men and women. Many young men proactively seek older financially independent women so as to have an easy access to money and power. And gold digging need not be restricted to a heteros*xual relationship. Most rich men attract 'friends' who are just looking for freebies.

It is necessary to be able to spot a gold digger if you’re the kind of guy/girl who is generous. If you’re known to take the tab very often and you shower people with gifts for no reason, being able to tell if the person you’re attracting is a gold digger is imperative. You like to have a good time and don’t mind paying for a few people just so they can have a good time with you. Well, I have news for you…when you’re indulging in these “philanthropic” activities, the attractive gold digger seated at the bar is gauging your worth and is making mental notes about how to make a move on you.

Fortunately, there are a few cues you could look for if you want to spot a gold digger. Here they are

!. A gold digger is always around when times are good. Think celebrations, festivities, parties, shopping sprees and the like. They’ll always be like moths to a flame. A gold digger aspires to a certain lifestyle and because he/she cannot pay for it, the second best thing is to cling to someone who can. So, they are often seen in company of people who host or attend parties. They will always feign interest in a man or woman who travels a lot, drives a nice car, or loves to dine out often.

2. Some gold diggers will blatantly ask for loans or gifts (usually within the first month of dating). Some use techniques like sulking and moping till they’re pampered. They could be irate and downright disgusted that you’re not treating them right.

3. Gold diggers are never around when times are bad. So if your bank balance has hit rock bottom or business is bad, the gold digger is out that door. If you’re going through some legal issues and you need some emotional support, call your mom because your gold digging partner is probably out at a party looking for the next victim.

08/03/2015

How to Survive a Really Bad Date

We've all had really... really bad dates. It could have been a match date, or it could have been a blind date our friends fixed us up on. It happens to everyone, where within 10 minutes of sitting down, you know there's zero chemistry or chance you would EVER be into this person.

Then, you find yourself sitting in a restaurant, forced to share a meal with somebody you don't even want to share another second with.

We've all had dates like this. Bad dates where we're sitting opposite someone we’re simply not attracted to. So how do you get through this excruciatingly painful and awkward situation? First, take a deep breath. It is only temporary. You don’t have to kiss this person, or even see or speak to them again. Be patient. Be kind.

I remember one time I showed up and this man came over, literally 20 years older than his picture. He sat down, and I didn't know who he was. I’m not sure if he responded to the look on my face or if he was so used to the reaction but he introduced himself as the man in the photo and then sat down.

I felt compassion for him. I felt sadness in my heart that he had to use a fake photo to lure in dates. I told him I needed to go. I let him know I didn't feel any spark but I appreciated the drinks and food and then I left.

Could I have done a better job of letting him down? Maybe, but at least I did it with compassion in my heart.

08/02/2015

GUYS DON’T DATE THEIR B***Y CALLS

Does he/she want you as a girlfriend or are you merely a “b***ycall”?

You and your guy used to talk about everything. Your dreams, your hopes, and the future. He told you that he never felt more comfortable than he did when he was around you. He loved to share his stories with you. Then, things started to change. He called only late at night, only wanted to see you late at night and there were never any dates or plans made.

If s*x is the only thing a guy has on his mind when he contacts you, you’re in danger of becoming the b***y call.

Sure, he likes you. He’s probably even attracted to you. The problem is, unless you refrain from his expectations and let him know you want more from him, he’ll think you’re OK with the s*xy talk. You need to let a man know right away, what your expectations are. You deserve more than just being someone he calls when he’s lonely. Tell him you’re not happy with things, and you want to go back to the way things were. If he’s not prepared to do that, then let him go. Guys DON’T DATE their b***y calls, and if that’s what you’re becoming, you need to get out fast!

08/02/2015

Does this scenario sound familiar to you… You’ve met a guy. You get along great. He says he likes you, and he’s started kissing you when you’re together, but you just can’t seem to connect with him emotionally. It’s as if you’re dating, but he has some sort of barrier up. You don’t want to say anything in case it freaks him out. You’ve found a guy who seems interested in you. The last thing you want to do is push him away.

But is he serious about dating you? Is he scared of commitment? Does he have other women he’s doing this with?
The longer this goes on, the more confused you become. You’ve met some of his friends, and he’s met some of yours. What’s going on? Why won’t he open up, and what should you do about it?

Here’s the first thing you HAVE to do, no matter how worried you are about the response… You have to talk to him! There’s no getting away from it. You need to clarify what he wants. Are you dating? Is he only interested in you? Is he happy to commit? Why is he acting distantly?

Don’t interview him like he’s under arrest, but just make it clear you want to understand his feelings so you know where your relationship is heading.
If he reacts badly then you know he’s an emotionally unevolved monkey-man, and you’re better off without him. Most the time, a man will be happy to let you know what he wants, and you can figure out where you stand.

But you HAVE to have the discussion. If you don’t, only one thing is going to happen… You’re going to become paranoid. You won’t know what he wants. You’ll worry he’s with other women. You’ll want to know where he is when he isn’t with you. You’ll start to freak out, and it won’t be long before you start to push him further away… He might be terrified of YOU hurting him. He may be desperate to commit to you, but worries YOU’LL reject him.

Remember, men are as scared of being hurt as you are! The only way you’re ever going to connect with the RIGHT man, is to communicate!

06/25/2015

http://www.davidwygant.com/women/blog/attract-and-approach-men/women-get-rid-of-your-masculine-energy/

Are you a woman who has too much masculine energy? If you are, then you need to get rid of a lot of that masculine energy when you are in the dating world. Women who have a lot of masculine energy need to dress more s*xy. They need to put themselves out there a little bit more. Do you know what masc…

11/10/2013

http://justmytype.ca/11-differences-between-dating-a-boy-vs-a-man/

However, if you are a woman (independent, ambitious, knows your worth and value, has a strong moral compass, is considerate and an able communicator and doesn?t let insecurity dominate your psyche), then you should be dating a man.